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Advice Needed about Brother

Lefty

Lefty

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My advice is to keep your snooping f-ing nose out of your brothers shit,

His business is his, HIS, business unless he wants to share it with you.

What you going to do, say Hey Bro, while I was borrowing YOUR equipment I snooped through YOUR stuff and....wel...... at that point my snoopass brothers ears would be ringing to say the least.
 
I think you tell him what you found. He may have forgotten about them and that could embarass him with someone else. Does he know you are into guys?
 
And that includes personal stuff like pics? Not in myt house...maybe music, mayb some software something or other but not my personal stuff.

Its like I can't reach my wallet so I tell you to take $10.00 out and you do, plus my Visa and AX card. But, thats just my opinion.
 
could be totally innocent, it might be that he just copied the files of his buds computer just like ur doing from your bros and he might not even know its on there.

i would leave it alone- i mean if he is gay/bi/curious he will tell you if and when he wants too and u shouldnt make him one minute before he is ready
 
Lefty said:
My advice is to keep your snooping f-ing nose out of your brothers shit,

His business is his, HIS, business unless he wants to share it with you.

What you going to do, say Hey Bro, while I was borrowing YOUR equipment I snooped through YOUR stuff and....wel...... at that point my snoopass brothers ears would be ringing to say the least.
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OOOhhh, someone's a little touchy about big brother snooping....
 
texan_slant said:
Let it go, and don't say a word.
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Have the decency of taking this to the grave with you. It is your brother's deal. I usually ask myself, if I do such and such..what do I add to life in general? In this case, I do not see you adding anything either to yours, to your brother's or to the world. So, bite that tongue and die with it.
 
dude, if he already knows you are gay, what I would do is subtly bring up the subject...say something like "I wonder how hot it would be to see [insert brother's bud's name here] jacking off"

Play around the issue, don't attack him on it or corner him...let him be the one to admit to it (if he feels comfortable enough). If he doesn't respond to the first "clue" then maybe you can slowly talk about more and more "gay" stuff until he either tells you to shut the fuck up or he breaks down and admits his sexuality.

But I wouldn't force him to tell you something he isn't ready or willing to tell you....just my $0.02
 
No buddah, not the least bit touchy. However, invasion of privacy sits right up there on my suck ass shitty act list even equal to or above I.D. theft.[-X

Compared to those "I promise, I won't come in your mouth" is a no show. JMHO
 
I reckon you should tell him, just so he either transfer those files to somewhere more private or delete them so this situation does not happen agian.

Seeing that he gave you his external drive and said to take what ever you wanted means that he most likely just forgot about his buddies files. Also it is not considered snooping around if you ahve permission to look at everything.
 
Lefty said:
No buddah, not the least bit touchy. However, invasion of privacy sits right up there on my suck ass shitty act list even equal to or above I.D. theft.[-X

Compared to those "I promise, I won't come in your mouth" is a no show. JMHO
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Don't be so uptight you don't know that as this guy was scrolling through the files he intended to transfer that a file icon appeared and displayed a picture of someone jacking off.
 
I agree with gogol2009. As a guy who is slowly coming out to certain people, if you suspect someone is gay then don't ask them. That tells them that you might have a problem with it if it's something you need to ask. They'll get defensive and probably never come out to you. You shouldn't make him express his feelings even a second before he's ready. Let him do it in his own time and just bite your tongue. That's what family is all about :)
 
Download it onto his computer. Re-link his desktop icons to open up the video, max settings, max sound. Reconfigure Ctrl-Alt-Del to send the video to everyone on his address book.

Kidding.

Don't forget you saw it, but don't put it in his face. Even though he allowed you to browse and copy what you wanted, you chanced upon something he forgot was there. Its cons really outweight the pros here.
 
gogol2009 said:
could be totally innocent, it might be that he just copied the files of his buds computer just like ur doing from your bros and he might not even know its on there.
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True. . .or he could be blackmailing someone. lol



i would leave it alone- i mean if he is gay/bi/curious he will tell you if and when he wants too and u shouldnt make him one minute before he is ready
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I agree; People really don't respect privacy in today's world. Unless your brother's ever given you a hard time, outed you or confronted you about your sexuality, leave him alone.
 
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