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Hey everybody,

I'm still young and haven't hooked up with any guys ever. I want to start meeting locals online like on craigslist and xtube, but I have a big fear that someone would try to harm me in some way for some crazy reason. Can anyone please give me advice on how to handle this but still meet people? I mean, I know obviously there are people who just want to hook up and get off, but there are nutjobs out there who are looking for trouble too. Please help me out! Thanks!
 
Trade facebooks/myspaces..or do a cam.

Get at least their real full name. trace their phone number if you have to. (whitepages charges $1.99 for a phone trace. I do it now for everyone I meet off the net)

meet in a public place first.
 
youngnihilist has given some solid advice. I'd also do a google search on them.
 
Both of the above posts have basically given you all the safe advice that you
can reasonably carry out .
Well done guys . ..|
 
I'm glad you asked the question and glad you received the above responses. Additionally it helps having gay friends you can run things past and/or straight friends who you can be open with. Use your fear level to keep you away from real or imagined danger. Don't let it immobilize you, but don't use alcohol or drugs to lower inhibitions around strangers.

I once had the most amazing hook up opportunity in terms of the guys looks and demeanor. I was to follow as he drove to his place. I started following him, but something just seemed amiss, but he was so hot and my dream man. I followed for a few blocks and then listened to my thoughts and went home instead. That was the only time I had that feeling. I don't know what would have happened, but no one knew where I was and I knew nothing about this guy.

So I think the solution is friends in whom you can confide and allowing yourself to be guided by instinct while meeting in a public place.
 
soreknees reminded me of something. If possible, let someone know where you will be and when. If it's just a simple date, give them the time of when you expect to be back as well.
 
One solid piece of advice is just don't rush. Don't meet the first guy who agrees, hopefully you talk with them over some amount of time (maybe if you talk often like a week, or fewer between a month) GENERALLY if you can keep up a conversation with a person somewhat steadily without anything odd happening then they are pretty okay. as much as you can guess... you really will never be sure... always make it clear that either of you can leave if you want...
 
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