Advice!!!!

[ILoveYouandFB]

I really like this one guy, He is really sweet and cute. I am convinced he isn;t straight by the way he acts and stuff. We go to school together but the problem is it's a Christian School (They HATE Gays) I can't tell him how I feel. I have been acting really gay around him adn giving him direct eye contact and all the usual, but it doesn;t work. Any Suggestions?

 

[Willie Boy]

Yeah. He's probably straight and you've just convinced yourself he isn't through a thing called wishful thinking. Move on and find someone who can return your affections.

 

[Seasoned]

How much longer will you be at this school. I hope for your sake that it won't be much longer.

 

[rareboy]

but the problem is it's a Christian School (They HATE Gays)

It isn't a Christian school. It is a fundamentalist old testament school.

If you like this guy and want to spend time with him, then arrange to do that. If it is just sexual attraction, then leave it alone in this environment.

It is apparent he isn't going to act based on you behaving like a homo, so you can forget that strategy.

 

[G-Lexington]

Drop the gay act. Just treat him like a potential friend for now. Get to know him, decide if you like him even if he's straight. If not, he's not worth getting to know if he's gay. If so, you can get to know him outside of school, and see where things go from there.

Lex

 

[Lube]

I really like this one guy, He is really sweet and cute. I am convinced he isn;t straight by the way he acts and stuff. We go to school together but the problem is it's a Christian School (They HATE Gays) I can't tell him how I feel. I have been acting really gay around him adn giving him direct eye contact and all the usual, but it doesn;t work. Any Suggestions?

Where are you doing this? At school? How do you expect him to act? Do you expect him to jump your bones, or scream "I'm gay!" from the rooftops?

You can't expect other people to come out if you're not willing to. Simple as that.

Acting really gay is not coming out.

 

[TX-Beau]

Yes you can tell him how you feel, you just won't tell him how you feel.

What do you mean by "acting really gay?" How is this going to be useful when there's not really any definition of "act gay," short of stereotyping, and I seriously doubt it would be all that attractive if you put on some big gay stereotypical facade, in the hopes of getting his attention. I'D walk away from a guy doing that. You're expecting him to read your mind, and unless he's Miss Cleo, you're out of luck. Why are you doing this? Because you won't just tell him you're gay. You want to know if he is, but aren't willing to take a risk. You'll get nowhere this way.

More importantly, where do you think this is going?

You don't know if he's gay or straight, you have no intention of telling him until he says something first, you're in a negative environment. I suspect that you're in the closet.

Before you can sustain a successful relationship, a lot of those factors have to be resolved. Until they are, it doesn't matter if he's gay, straight, bi, or into farm animals.