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Hey everyone. So, I had a question. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. Might seem like a short time, but I adore this guy. Never felt this way before. I was with my exes for years and never had these feelings. We have a great relationship and the sex is amazing. I finally have a sex drive now! Whoo hoo lol. My question is that I bought a jock strap to surprise him with one night. Just let him find it on me. I've told him I have something to wear sometime, but I have not yet. Mostly because I am too nervous. I am sure he'd like it, but my fear is that I am still a little chubby. I've lost a lot of weight in a year and he says he's very happy with my body and I believe him, just scared of rejection, and I've told him that. Told him I was scared he'd laugh at me because I am still chubby. I don't have that body you see when you picture a jock strap. I am ok with that, but nervous. I guess I sound like a walking contradiction, I hope all this makes sense. Any tips?
 
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First, welcome to JUB! :wave:

If he says he is okay with you as you are, and you believe him, what's the problem giving the jock strap a test run? If not a plus in the relationship you needn't wear it again.
 
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Don't question him or make him feel bad just because he thinks you are sexy. BTW, lots of guys with a bit of meat on their bones wear jock straps. Most of all, just enjoy being with him and trying new things like this. Based on my own experience, you can't wait until you think your body is perfect before you let yourself really get into sex. It's not fair to him or you, so just go for it and show him a sexy time with the body you've got, even if you're still working to make it better.
 
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I don't know why I am so worried he'd laugh. I know he won't. Guess I am just nervous. I need to just do it.
 
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If you know you're being irrational, act accordingly ;)

And don't disrespect him - he told you he is ok with your body, so you owe him to take him at his word until he gives you a reason not to :)
 
Well, the question for you to think about is whether you're wearing the jock for him or for you. Either is fine but it may change the timing of when you wear it.

If your boyfriend likes underwear or athletic gear and you want to wear it for him, then you're ready. As other members have pointed out- he's told you that he finds you attractive, so anything that you do to appeal to his turnons and fantasies will likely be rewarded with a good ass-fucking for you.

On the other hand, if you're wearing it because it turns you on, then you should wear it when you feel comfortable wearing it. There's probably nothing more more of a turn on than a guy who is comfortable with his own body and who wants to show it off to his partner. If you're not comfortable wearing it, then take some time to get to a point where it turns you on to show off in your jockstrap.
 
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