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Afraid to have sex with BF

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A week ago I finally got my first boyfriend. I'm 18, I've been out for just under a year, and I'm a virgin. Living in a small town with practically no openly gay guys, I never thought I would get a boyfriend while I still lived here, and now that I have one, I'm pretty terrified... of having sex.

The problem is my penis. It's only 5.75 inches in length and 4 inches in girth. I'm fine with the length, but the girth has caused me so much stress and I'm terrified of the thought of another guy seeing it. My boyfriend is a really nice guy; he wouldn't make any mean remarks about my size, but I'm mortified that he'll be disappointed or that he won't even be able to feel me.

Is my penis size going to be a problem? Do you think other guys (i.e. hookups) would turn me down because of it? Thanks for any responses, I really do appreciate it.
 
You are within the average range on length & girth.
I know it's not easy, but try not obsessing about it :p
Unless your BF is a size queen, you should have absolutely nothing to worry about.
 
Shea,
don't stress about it. Your penis size sounds about the same as loads of guys I have been with over the years, so I would say it's perfectly normal. Watching porn gives us all an unrealistic view of guys' cock sizes as they tend to use models / actors that are well endowed. Just relax and enjoy the fun, and take things slowly since you are still a virgin, especially if you intend to bottom. Lots of lube and fingers first to start with. I take it that you're in a small town in Ireland? Having been in that scenario once, I know where you are coming from... Best of luck, don't stress, just have fun!
 
Yeah...don't obsess about your normal penis size. Just relax; focus on exploring and having fun with each other.
 
Too much porn can give the impression everyone is huge. Who you are and how you play is what's important. What happens if your larger than he?
 
Just relax, your size is just fine, no need to fret over it, cuz there is nothing you can do about. And if you know your guy, he will be just fine with it cuz he is with you.. relationships are just based on cock size, well real one's are not. JUst be your self and enjoy your company together...

Ps, you there are many sizes, shapes, color's, cut/uncut in the world. And that's the beauty of mother nature...
 
The guy I like (love?) has a small penis. I didn't know until talking to him for a year. It doesn't bother me because I care about him, love him, and just don't care...in other words, if he cares about you, your size wont even be an issue.
 
Watch some Bel Ami porn where to models are mostly normal in size rather than XL. You will see that the guys seem to be having more fun, perhaps because the thinner dicks are easier to take??
 
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