After Orgasm Etiquette

[gmoney]

Oh Sweetie, that's not me at all! I love to just get "close" and yes, cuddle after sex. I think that's just as good as the sex itself.

Sometimes, I get really tired after a long session and the cuddle part is short-lived, but I would never just collapse ! I think that's just leaving the intimacy 'unfinished' if you ask me.

 

[metta]

What do they want you to do? Rub their back?

I think that they want you to scratch their ear.

 

[martin6]

I much prefer the "promptly rolls over on his side and begins snoring" kinda guy.

 

[Golliwog]

I think that they want you to scratch their ear.

or their rear!

 

[Absolut]

^ Or in the OP's case, the vagina or ass

And I couldn't even tell you my own mother's name during/immediately after cumming. I sleep where I fall!

 

[Kester]

Never had anyone collapse on me. That'd be awkward if they did though. I could be stuck under there for who knows how long.

 

[DeMan06]

sometimes, but usually only after we both cum at the same time (or nearly the same time).

 

[Kurn]

It means "I'm all yours, ma'am."

 

[ratrat]

Then dont do it at night..

 

[Ramindra]

Gee...if only I had a man to collapse on me......

 

[BenF]

I usually light up a ciggy, tell him to finish himself off and go and make a cup of tea.

 

[Pathicus]

I swallow.

 

[Sunshine]

I read the title and immediately though of OrionFyre.....why dat is ?

 

[justgofaster]

Never mind.

 

[evil_danger]

Just be happy your getting some.

Although its rude if he didn't bring you to orgasm and he just stops.

 

[teadrinker]

Collapse? Oh dear me no. He must get up at once and make me a cup of tea!

-T.

 

[G-Lexington]

I'd never do that. I'd stand up, pull out, wipe my dick off on the drapes, and insist the little queen get up and fix me a snack.

...Most of the time, it's tough to time these things perfectly. If my partner heads for orgasm before I do, that's cool - I like watching him finish. I give him about half a minute to enjoy the afterglow, and then he's kindhearted enough to know it's my turn.

Lex

 

[looseliam]

Hmm, he can pound me arse for hours, but I'm to get bitchy when he lays on me?

Fuck if I care. Use me any way you want.

I usually light up a ciggy, tell him to finish himself off and go and make a cup of tea.

 

[Alpha1851]

And I couldn't even tell you my own mother's name during/immediately after cumming. I sleep where I fall!

I'm pretty bad about that too. Not really meaning to leave my beau unsatisfied, I've fallen asleep after I've gotten off and left him hard as a rock. I usually wake up w/in 10 min. though and finish him off. Just goes to show that women are just as guilty I suppose.

gc64s1, did you really expect a bunch of MEN to sympathize w/ you? They probably aren't going to take your side over another males--especailly if you're suggesting that one of their pack sucks in bed. I can see where you're coming from though. I love Jason's weight on me UNTIL I've gotten off. Then, for some odd reason, he just becomes heavy. I like the collapse on top thing, but I hate the cuddle afterward w/ the arm and leg thrown over my body (I'm very skinny and he isn't.) I usually shove him off, kiss him, and go to sleep. I don't understand why you don't just tell the guy to get off of you too. I can also see your point w/ the whole condom thing. If that puppy leaks you could end up w/ an STD. I'd want the guy to pull out and dispose of the rubber too. And, I'd tell him to do so. He should understand, we all know the rules of protection by now. Men aren't mind readers you know. There's no way for the man in your bed to know what you're thinking if you don't tell him. Now, if you tell him what you want and need and the fella fails to deliver, then I'd dump his ass and find someone else. Straight guys are a dime a dozen. There's always another better make and model out there.

 

[bigalt]

^

Refer to my post, lady. And either teach him to go slower, or pull out your dildo

Or find a better man. One that respects that you just wanna get off, and then not be touched. Or something. Because i don't get the majority of your point.

Would love to see the look on the guys face if she did that.