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After Orgasm Etiquette

Those of you who are claiming that the OP should just be thankful that she's getting poked and should stop complaining, must either (1) be pretty damn desparate to have a bf and will put up w/ lousy sex in order to get one; or, (2) have never had great sex so you don't know the difference btwn a lousy lay that collapses on top of you before getting the job done and one that collapses on top of you after it's been a great ride.

Or maybe it's jealousy that you aren't getting laid too....

Let the girl speak her piece.
 
since when was orgasm the be all and end all? I have had guys collapse on me and I dont care, long as they stay awake long enough to smile and say thanks then I just carry on without them! (which is usually a good way to get them to join again cos they just cant help themselves!)

(oh FYI for those of you who dont me......Another female :D)

this is gonna sounds weird with me saying but meh....

cumming actually takes a lot out of a guy! (tee hee) huge adrenalin rush which leaves the muscles spasming all over, your out of breathe etc.....its not completely unreasonable for the poor sod to need a breather.

and you want him to finish you off.....tell him! men arent mind readers, if he has never been told its a problem then how does he know to do something differant?

oh and GC.....sorry sweetie but on a public forum anyone can comment, you may not like what jy_star has to say but he has the right to say it.

you have the right to express your opinion obviously :D

but everyone else has the right to respond however they want within the CoC, whether you like their responses or not
 
Puff said:
or maybe we just like the closeness. And I don't see how you would know since you're straight... See I can play that game too. OH and FYI, I'd rather have lousy sex with the person I love then no sex at all. At least I'd be close to him.

Let us speak our piece.
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What does being straight v. gay have to do w/ anything? My let the girl speak her piece was in comment to the JUBBER who told her to shut the fuck up.

However, since you brought up the subject, and I'm curious, why would you prefer to have sex w/o an orgasm over no sex at all. Isn't the whole point of sex to cum? Well, I enjoy sucking Jason off and jerking him off and that doesn't have to lead to me getting off but if we're fucking then I'd expect to cum (and yes, I've already admitted that I've fallen asleep before getting him off too) I mean, you aren't a blow up doll after all. I must admit that it is for me--and as you've pointed out, I'm a straight chick. I assumed that most men felt the same way. Care to elaborate?
 
actually the point of sex isnt always to cum, tantric sex isnt about that, its about closeness and energy (and feels fucking amazing!)
 
actually, tantric aside (seriously guys, try it!...OMG)

the point of sex IS to cum...........if your a straight man with a woman and wish to conceive.

women?........not so much, serves no biological purpose in the advancement of the species, its purely for pleasure.

and if it bothers you that much to go without, then how about a compromise?

you get him to make you cum first.....and see if YOU have the energy afterwards to finish HIM off without being asked

(no offense to anyone, just me speaking my piece)
 
Oh, don't get me wrong, I'm into Jason! I do lots of little sappy things for him. But, when it comes to sex, I'm in it for the orgasm. And I assume that he is too. Cumming releases stress, gets rid of pent up energy, and helps me to relax for a while. As far as the dildo or fuck machine goes (and I've never heard of that before....it sounds kind of funny) they just aren't the same as a nice warm, throbbing, hard, excited dick. No where near the same.
 
Well, The_Pianist, when you were left high and dry by a fella, did you say something to him? Did you let them know that you wanted to snuggle a bit or chat or do whatever it is that you wanted to do. Guys aren't mind readers ya know.
 
Right after a wild round of sex:

-- Hey Lois, how 'bout a sandwich?

-- It's good to have ya back, Peter.

-- Lois, less talky more fetchy!

-- I'm going to assume that's Chinese for "I love you."

:lol:
 
tryout151 said:
Not for me. The best sex I've had with my guy has been when he gets off and collapses on me. He would just laid on top of me, his dick in me, holding/stroking my hand, kissing my shoulder.

I'd lay there for hours. It was the intimacy that was great.
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A lot of ya'll are leaving out the majoirty of the OPs complaint. It isn't just that the guy "collapsed on her" after cumming. It's the fact that the fell on her and then ignored the fact that she hadn't gotten off. Now, I personally think she should just speak up and say something or start masterbating and see if he picks up from there or just find someone else. Another problem that she hates is the fact that the guy is laying on her while he's still wearing a cum filled condom inside of her body. We all know the safe sex rules. As soon as possible after the fella comes you gotta grip the condom at the base and slowly pull out in order to avoid spillage. Otherwsie, there's the whole risk of STD's. I can understand the whole after glow thing...again, I've forgotten about my guy once or twice during that period. But, you gotta pull out and throw the condom away. That's just how it works. Again, I think the OP should just say something to the guy. Maybe she was looking for information. I mean, since most JUBBERS are male, maybe she thought you all could offer some advice. I like Jy Star's whole pull out a dildo thing. Would love to see what happened if she actually did it. Maybe the OP wanted to see if you all were bothered by those acts (falling on someone and ignoring their need to get off and putting their health at risk). Maybe she wanted to see if you all would speak up if in that same situation. Maybe she wanted to see how you all would bring it up. Maybe she just wanted to vent--we have those type of threads all the time. I don't know.


Anyway Tryout, I'm not a cuddler. I have shit to do and laying there in his arms isn't on my list of things to check off. I do compromise though and am willing to go the extra mile for him. I could definitely go for the whole sleeping w/ him inside of me thing. Hmmm....

It's really refreshing to hear so many of you males say that though. This is the kind of stuff that I've only heard from my girlfriends before. It's sweet.
 
"shit to do and laying in his arms isnt one of them"

when are you having sex, lunchtime?! its usually night time for me and i have nothing else to do but go to sleep with my partner
 
](*,)](*,)

The Musical - My Fair Lady - Lerner and Lowe

The Song - I Could Have Danced All Night

Eliza Bed! Bed! I couldn't go to bed!
My head's too light to try to set it down! Sleep! Sleep!
I couldn't sleep tonight.
Not for all the jewels in the crown!
I could have danced all night!
I could have danced all night!
And still have begged for more.
I could have spread my wings
And done a thousand things I've never done before.
I'll never know What made it so exciting;
Why all at once My heart took flight. I only know when he
Began to dance with me I could have danced,
danced, danced all night!
Servant 1 It's after three now.
Servant 2 Don't you agree now,
She ought to be in bed.
Eliza I could have danced all night!
I could have danced all night!
And still have begged for more.
I could have spread my wings
And done a thousand things I've never done before.
I'll never know What made it so exciting.
Why all at once my heart took flight.
I only know when he
Began to dance with me.
I could have danced, danced danced all night!
Mrs. Pearce I understand, dear.
It's all been grand, dear.
But now it's time to sleep.
Eliza I could have danced all night,
I could have danced all night.
And still have begged for more.
I could have spread my wings,
And done a thousand things I've never done before.
I'll never know What made it so exciting.
Why all at once my heart took flight. I only know when he
Began to dance with me I could have danced, danced,
danced All night!​

eM.:(
 
great sex is subjective really, you get out of it what you put in (hehe thats sounds....yeah...)

to some its a good hard fuck with no emotion.

to others, its a slow sensual process that doesnt have to end in orgasm to be fullfilling.

bottom line is communication

if you dont like something then speak up! dont just complain to others or put up with it silently and bitch.

if your not compatible then move on, find someone your better with and quit the complaining.

or vary the routine, if your on top they cant collapse on you and you can carry on while they are laying there getting their breathe back, and if health is your issue (which i doubt, doesnt sound possible) then you get to get him out of you yourself
 
ok, I was actually directing that at the OP.

I never said "there is someone for everyone", some people believe there is and thats fine for them, I wish them luck in their search, and if they have found that person already then kudos to them
 
Well, The_Pianist, I'd do you good and proper if only I were a guy. I'd even cuddle afterward-just cause I like ya.

Actually, (and all of this is mere speculation on my behalf) it may be that you're putting to much expectation or pressure on the fellas that you told about your pitiful sexual experiences. You know, kind of like, "well no guy has ever been able to fulfill The_Pianist, what if I can't either."

If you ever find yourself in that same position, where you're providing all of the pleasure and the other guy is just getting serviced, you really do need to speak up. Maybe they think that you aren't into it and that's why they aren't trying to give back as good as they got. Maybe they're inexperienced. Who knows. But, you aren't a piece of meat you know. You have every right to have your balls drained too (that sounded really crass.)
 
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