The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    PLEASE READ: To register, turn off your VPN (iPhone users- disable iCloud); you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

  • The Support & Advice forum is a no-flame zone.
    The members offering support and advice do so with the best intention. If you ask for advice, we don't require you to take the advice, but we do ask that you listen and give it consideration.

After you came out, did people say they already knew?

When you came out, did people say they already knew it?

  • They already knew it (or suspected it)

    Votes: 28 68.3%

  • Didn't have a clue

    Votes: 13 31.7%
  • Total voters
    41
R

Rod Licquor

On the Prowl
Joined
Jun 2, 2004
Posts
71
Reaction score
0
Points
0
Just wondered if your friends/loved ones sensed or suspected and already knew you were gay.
 
Some people yes, others no. I don't come across as gay so unless I tell people most people have no clue. But some of my close friends and family knew.
 
Most said they already knew or I just confirmed their suspicion
 
I have not yet told someone who said that they knew, mainly because I don't really fit any gay stereotypes.
 
for me not sure. but when my friend came out, it was obvious and yet he asked how i know. it wasn't just because he wasn't dating girl. he was somewhat feminine and the way he acts. and he tends to touch me.
 
A surprise to roughly everyone I knew, although it did explain why I didn't date much. My friend predicted that his girlfriend would say, "Really? Wow!", and then, fifteen seconds later, "Yeah, OK, that makes sense. I sorta knew that." He won that bet. :)

Lex
 
For the few people I'd come out to, they were all surprised. Most of them thought I was pulling their legs. I guess my fashion style and nerdy look give me a pretty good disguise. Who says gay guys must be good in fashion???:rolleyes:
 
If it's important in your mind, you ought to define what that "gay stereotype" is so that we may all be enlightened.
 
Everyone around me, from family to friends, expected me to come out at any moment. So, when I did, it was less of a shock.

However, my father didn't until I was 16 and my mother outted me to him. Even my stepmother knew (despite me not telling her), but he didn't. We suspect it was a case of Liberace Syndrome.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top