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age different, would it work ? 18 and 28

tallguy.... you have a real way with words. I wanted to express exactly what you did, but you did it much better than I could have done.

Just to add to the success stories, I know a couple who are 31/18 and very happy. Granted, they have only been dating for a month, but it is going well so far.
 
You've a bunch of real good advice here and I really don't know what to add. Personally, I do not know of gay couples with a large age difference between them however I do have many family and friends (straight) who have big differences in their age and yet have a really good and long lasting relationship. I guess I'm saying if it could work for straight couples then I don't see why it cannot for a gay couple. Someone has said that maturity and life stages and 'chemistry' are important, that I must wholeheartedly agree. I guess those are really more important than age.

Anyhow, I do applaud you for being honest with him from the very start. Congratulations on having the courage to do so....:D
 
holycrap said:
hey guys,

i met a guy, 18yo boy from canada and he's a exchange student here.....and we kind of like each other, but think about his age, make me feel like it wasn't the right one for me, as I am 26 to 27 now....

would it work if we really couple ?
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If that is you in your avatar, I'd make it work!

You're quite handsome. ..|
 
Yes it could work! When i was 15 i had a 18 y/o boyfriend...and now Im 18, and he says he STILL loves me, so im sure it could work for you too :)
 
It could work. Age doesn't matter. It's the person that counts. So if both of you like each other and are happy together, don't mind the numbers.
 
<but i have told him that im not good in long term relationship, and no want to be tight down now...is it cruel ??

i like him, but no in love with him yet...so its easy for me to said goodbye now, rather then suffer later...>

It's not cruel if you told him this early on. Sounds like you made the best decision that you could in the situation.
 
When I was 26, I had a 19 year old boyfriend, and he was very possessive and controlling. I have a feeling that he might want to restrict you, and if you're not ready for that, you need to let him know. Just because he is younger doesn't mean that he has more wild oats to sow than you do. My BF came out when he was 13, and so he had had more sexual experience than I had. I came out when I was 21, but I had limited experience until I was 23.
 
Age is only a number but the main reason why alot of age gap relationships dont work out is that most times, the people are at different points in their life. I say just play it out for a bit and see how it works.
 
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