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I met a cool guy the other night. I told myself I wouldn't date anyone younger than me I'm 24. He seems very cool we get along well have similar likes and dislikes. The only thing that bugs me is that hes 20. My friends keep saying hes too young for me and im too old for him. Its frustrating because my parents are three years apart. My friend says I would be better off dating someone much older than me. Saying an older guy would spend money on me. Which is NOT what I'm after, I refuse to be with someone over material possessions. I think that's extremely narrow minded and such a selfish way of looking at things.

He sounds so hypocritical right now.........

I decided to ask you all, its driving me crazy lol.
What do you guys think?
 
If he's a decent guy, I wouldn't let the age difference bother you.
 
At your particular age, 4 years can seem huge.

It will be a total non-issue in only a year or two.

I say, take a chance, if it works out, that age difference will be meaningless in no time.
 
20 vs 24 is not an age difference. Have fun!
 
My parents married when my mother was 20 and father was 26. They lasted just short of fifty years.
 
Age ain't nothing but a number. If it doesn't bother you then that is all that matters....
 
Four years is not much of an age difference, if you both like each other you should at least give it a try.
 
This little gap isn't worth worrying about. I do understand fear of the gap personally. This wouldn't concern me.

I think I misunderstood something when I read that you described him as hypocritical...?:confused:
 
I feel a little better now. This could be like my first real relationship. I never had one before, so I'm new to the whole thing. I tend to avoid it, I don't know why.
I think I misunderstood something when I read that you described him as hypocritical...?
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I was meaning my friend. He was saying I shouldn't date this guy because of a 4 year age different. Yet he(my friend) would approve of me dating someone twice my age, especially if the person has the money to do so.
I was typing in a hurry. :P
 
That doesn't seem like a terribly significant age difference at all. If I were you, I would go for it.
 
I'm 19 and I've dated a 24 year old, age wasn't/isn't a problem for me really.
 
gayguy_1 said:
My friends keep saying hes too young for me and im too old for him. Its frustrating because my parents are three years apart. My friend says I would be better off dating someone much older than me. Saying an older guy would spend money on me.
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:lol:


If you want someone you can be happy with, you probably want to find someone closer to your own age; older or younger is just going to be at a completely different place in life than you are, and it isn't likely to work out in the long term.


BUT


There are definitely examples of couples with age differences making it work. So, find someone who's most compatible with you; someone who'll try their hardest to make it work, while you do the same. That's the only advice we can give.


Ask yourself "how serious of a relationship am I looking for right now?", and proceed with caution.
 
Sound like "your friend" is the one with the problem. Enjoy yourselves. My current guy is 13 years my junior.
 
your friends sound like douchebags. seriously, you need to consider why they would be saying that to you. i wouldnt have people around me saying i shouldnt be with someone because of something as SUPERFICIAL and SHALLOW as their age.

when i was 16 i thought 18 was old! so your perspective does change. the only thing i see here is that he is not old enough to drink, but that will come soon enough. and who else would he want to spend his 21st b day with other than his bf?

oh and my parents were around 5 years apart, its not a big deal.
 
Imagine if you're 30. He'll be 26. Would it be weird for you then?

What I find weird is:

- Your friend says you're too much older when its a 4 year difference.
- Your friend wants you to date someone way older than you are.

WTF?

Why would you even listen to this guy?

Edit: My parents are just 1 month apart by the way, same year of birth. My dad was born March 16, my mom April 17. They haven't had any problems because of that. They've been married for 36 years.
 
Are you fucking serious? I thought I was walking into "Hai guys I'm 19 and my boyfrun iz 63 iz dat 2 old lolz lls?"

Have fun, that is nothing ;)
 
i have a 17 year age difference in my relationship..... 4 years isn't even a difference imo
 
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