Age diffrences :\

[vulgar_newcomer]

I feel sorry for any guy involved with your friend judging from his point of view towards the $$$.
If you connect with someone that age thing goes on a back burner, not that there can't be issues in some cases however 4 yrs difference?
I'm listening to a album right now for the first time that came out in 1995 but you know it sounds like it could have been released yesterday as it is current for the genre.

 

[unloadonme]

Four years is nothing. A mere trifle. If you like him, go for it.

 

[FanofFiction]

Four years is no big deal. I agree with the others. Go for it man! Enjoy!

 

[Croynan]

why don't you start dating for awhile and put the sex issue to the side.? you may have found someone very special.

eM.

 

[hungrybrownbear]

Four years is nothing. A mere trifle. If you like him, go for it.

Very aptly stated!

 

[Críostóir]

When I was 39, I briefly dated a guy who was 40.

He was wayyy too young for me.

I have a friend who, at 45, fell in love with an 18-year-old,* who turned out to be much too old for him.

Maturity isn't reliably measured by age. Judge people as you find them, not by the numbers.**
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*So he claimed. I have my doubts.
**Well, if you have any doubts that they're of age, check ID. But that's just a common-sense caution, not a judgement.

 

[JUB]

4 years age difference is really nothing.

 

[gayguy_1]

Croynan-why don't you start dating for awhile and put the sex issue to the side.? you may have found someone very special.

That's how I want things to work. He showing that same level non sexual interest im showing so far.

lucky7-Age difference isn't the issue. He's 20. Is he mature? Does he have experience?

Yeah, we've been talking with each other like non stop for the whole week. I'm having a blast doing so! Hes bi so that makes it kind of interesting, I have no problem with that at all. We are both in the closet, I just told my sister the night I met him. His brother knows he likes dudes also, buts that's it. So we're both new to the whole dating men thing. Its adding a fun factor to knowing each other.

We met in such a cool way, in a club(yeah yealol). He managed to walk by me and he turned back and looked at me. We grabbed each other, he was close to me I was to him we looked at each other for like 1 minute. After that KABOOM we made out on the dance floor for like 45 mins until close. We were so into each other we ignored everyone and everything. I think it made my friend quite jealous of me. Like I don't find myself attractive, but others do. My friends have a thing for me that I don't understand. Its quite annoying.
So now we are looking forward to hanging out with each other with out anyone else!
Thanks for the input guys!

 

[AussieGuy91]

Glad to hear it!

 

[jerjerboi]

He is not too young for you and if your friends are telling you that .....they are just jealous. All that matters is that if you really like him and he feels the same for you...4 years isn't anything in the grand scheme of things.. I say go for it!!

 

[hack24]

Glad you guys are doing well. As long as you are into each other and find ways to share mutually enjoyable friends and activities then age shouldn't be an issue at all.

 

[cityboy-stl]

16 - 20? That's an age difference. 20 - 24? Not so much.

 

[herry1]

I was looking at age differences in my family with grandparents etc when they got married.

some were.

20 - 17

27 - 22

35 - 21

27 - 20

26 - 21

 

[GL]

Age ain't nothing but a number. If it doesn't bother you then that is all that matters....

i agree, it really is just a number. i'm 40 and i've been lucky to go out with a 23 year old guy and a fella who was 54. not at the same time mind you.

as long as you are interested and he's interested? why worry? life is short you know.

Shady Pines!

...jealous bitch.

 

[tipmyscales86]

I bet your friends won't be saying he's too young for you after he turns 21.

 

[jdcnow]

If he's a decent guy, I wouldn't let the age difference bother you.

Agreed. Do you know how hard it is to find decent guys you really click with of any age? Quality guys who are worth your time are hard to come by, period. If he's a nice guy, and you two get along well, then by all means, hang on to him for dear life.

 

[thewiz]

It sounds like your friends may be a tad jealous; I'm sure you and he make a beautiful couple.

And...the hubby is 29; I'm 53.....that's an age difference. Last night I was dancing on stage as part of a performance and my hubby laughed that it was with all younger guys. I know when he performs, it is usually with older guys.

My kids have not had a problem and neither Barry or I are looking at $$$. We each have a career, money and so it shall remain.....

Good luck and enjoy!

 

[derelictdarrel]

I don't think there's that much gap between you two. What matters is how he acts. and it sounds like you're into this dude.

I say, proceeed!.