Age-Gap in relationships

[xiandarkthorne]

Great for you Sam. I dont think a big age gap is what makes people break up...it's the mental incompatibility that matters in the end.

 

[recuerdeme]

i'm 23 bf's 45

 

[moonybig]

tho i dont have a bf yet to me i dont see any thing worng if there is an age gap if it is true love then age dont matter.

 

[xiandarkthorne]

Hi Cherokee,
When I hot (no type here) Five-Woooaaah! I plan to post the naughty pix on my personal naughty website cuz I wannabe the first Asian naughty grandad posterboy (I know...I know...oxymoron there but you get the idea). I can't put them up on my other non-naughty website cuz the rest of the family would have a fit!

Concerning men in sarung...*sob*sob*...I asked around and the younger generation of Malaysian men seem to have gone off it. Most of the younger guys I asked all said that they wore only those dreadful Seven Dwarves' "shorts" (how they can be called shorts if they're not short, I don't know). Oh well, time passes us all....

Concerning olderman/youngerman relationships, I take off my hat to Recuer. And Moony, don't give up. If you're not in good condition, then do what I did....get off the couch and start slow. One sit up and one pushup more everyday...it's gotta be a rest-of-my-lifetime commitment to looking hot whatever your age. You'll have no problem finding someone once you start looking good...you'll start feeling so good about yourself that I bet you start doing what I used to do too...take off your shirt at every excuse whenever there's someone interesting around! Hawhawhaw!!! Long may you both love and laugh.

Xian

 

[Gohman]

Been in a relationship for 2 years. He's 42 years older than me...hehehe. I'm 22, he's 64. So far it's been great!

 

[maturemenfan69]

Im a 21 yo guy and my partner is a hot 50 yo bear, and Ryan lee its totally right, he feels insecure cuz im good looking and he is afraid that i may go with other guy, and Im insecure cuz imnot stable with money issues yet and it can get tricky... we talked about that in our first month together and we are perfect now, so far the best thing i´ve ever had. So guys dont be afraid when there's a lot of age diference... when your soul mate arrive just GO for it

 

[eclectic_spirit]

...there's the issue of not feeling attractive enough. I mean, sure there was mutual attraction, but what if they find someone younger or buffer than me?

It's enough to scare me off sometimes.

It shouldn't scare you in the least. If that is you in your avatar, you're verrry cute and adorable, and definitely my type.

I will be 40 in three weeks. I'm not in a relationship, but it's definitely not because I don't want one. I've always been attracted to guys younger than me, but because I'm a chubby teddy bear, none of the guys I'm interested in are interested in me. They all want the smaller, more buff and less hairy guys. **sigh**

 

[IowaGuy]

Very interesting reading guys - to each his own. In my case my partner is 10 years older. It's never been a problem - we've learned from each other. BTW I'm 64 and he will be 75 this month - we've been together 39 years.

 

[pzvalentino]

When I was in college I started a great relationship with an older (10 year difference) gay. He turned out to be controlling but we stayed together for over 20 years...then when I decided to get out of teh relationship I met a great guy who turned out to be the love of my life...

I was 47 and he was 26 when we met and we hit it off right fromn the start. He was truly my soulmate and we passed off who was the "leader" or "dominant" according to our skills, talents or desires.

Once, early on, I asked him if our age difference ever bothered him and as always he responded with the truth and said, "yeah, sometimes it does". When I started to pout he laughed and asked if I didn't want to know why. When I took the cue he replied that it was because he hahd trouble keeping up with me sometimes...

Unfortunately our relationship ended this January. After telling me at Christmas, not asking me but telling me...of course he knew what I'd say... that we were getting married and selecting April as our month. Three weeks later I woke up with him unresponsive in bed next to me, he had heart problems and was helping an old family friend get his health issues under control and neglecting his own and after I tried CPR and suh he was rushed to teh hospital but the doctors could not revive him.

Depending on the couple MAy-December can be a very beautiul comingling.

 

[Luka]

ok i can see haveing sex with older/younger...but an actual relationship??? u guys are weirdos

 

[pzvalentino]

maybe that's why you're single...

 

[thisisinteresting]

ok i can see haveing sex with older/younger...but an actual relationship??? u guys are weirdos

No way, PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE... DIFFERENT TASTES THAN ME!? MY GOD, what a bunch of freaks. This post right here is exactly why I don't get along with people my age. Their world revolves around them too much.

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Aww, I am so sorry to hear that. I don't even know what else to say. I never really think about older/younger relationships ending in the younger one passing away. If it's any consolation, your tragic story has kinda made me realize that it's entirely possible I could be the first one to go in my relationship, even though he's much older.

My condolences.

 

[Luka]

well, i just think people going out with people their parents age is gross...and i wish people wuldnt do it.