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Ahh, the idiocy of some people....

G-Lexington

G-Lexington

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He wants absolutely nothing to do with you - not as a friend, not as an ex, nothing. So there you be. Keep his stuff, get rid of it, whatever.

Lex
 
The email was clear. He has moved on.

Its good if you moved on as well and no need to contact him again.
 
Cool. Then that chapter's gone. You have one less person in your life.

Lex
 
Actually, he is doing you a favor. He is letting you know who he really is and that is someone you don't need in your life.
 
G-Lexington said:
Cool. Then that chapter's gone. You have one less [STRIKE]person[/STRIKE] asshole in your life.
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Fixed.

Puff said:
It's amazing... I'm just stunned. It's actually good, because here I am, and I'm getting the other side of the story. I always saw him as the right person in conflicts with his friends, now I see it differently.
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There's a reason that we have eyes in the front of our heads and not in the back. It's so that we don't have to see when you leave someone like this in your past.
 
I think even people I don't like send messages on those type days..it seems fine..I think I wud have too...well rather u not with a person like that..thankfully his ur ex now :)..
 
Take this as positive man. At least you know where you stand with him and you can get closure whereas if he had been civil to you, you might have started to hold out hopes etc. He's made a clean cut, take the positive from it and do the same.
 
Take this as the explaination of why he is your ex. It will be fun to ceremoniously trash his shit.

It sounds to me that it is just the opposite of what he said. You have moved on; he has not.
 
must have been one nasty break up. Oh well. Now you can do whatever you want to the stuff he left behind.
 
Are you SURE that it was HIM and not his NEW PARTNER that returned the EMail???

Seems VERY RUDE to me...

Oh -- and my EX and my current partner get along like BEST Friends...

There REALLY should be NO REASON to HATE like that...

YUCK...

:(:(:(
 
swerve said:
Are you SURE that it was HIM and not his NEW PARTNER that returned the EMail???

Seems VERY RUDE to me...

Oh -- and my EX and my current partner get along like BEST Friends...

There REALLY should be NO REASON to HATE like that...

YUCK...

:(:(:(
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Yeah but sometimes being friends with your EX is different for everyone. I am friends with my ex but that's because we still talk to each other on a daily basis. In the OP's case its not that way, nothing he can do but go on with his life, and I agree it's one less person he has to deal with.
 
I'm leaning towards total douche... but anyway...

It doesn't change the fact that somebody you once cared for is now showing their true colors and being the asshat they were all along... people can be chameleons like that.

The shock of it, thinking you knew the guy, his character, and then getting basically what amounts to a bucket of ice water in your face...

No your intentions were never to get back with him, just trying to be an adult and carrying on in a somewhat amicable fashion... just cause you two aren't together anymore, doesn't mean that what you had wasn't something, and that the whole damn thing is better off being swept under the rug...


Nah, take his junk, sell what you can, donate the rest... you've moved on already, but now you have the satisfaction of knowing you are the better man of the two.

So yeah, there you go.
 
Yeshua said:
I'd say burn his stuff and with it symbollicaly burn everything that "attached" you to him (even the memories).

Hang in there, you deserve better.
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Yes, burning is the best way since selling his stuff will only bother you knowing that someone out there has to suffer with buying his crap. With burning you will no that it will cleanse your mind from the trash.
 
Wasn't he much older (as in 50 years)? I guess with age doesn't come wisdom or compassion, but we knew that already. He certainly didn't deserve you!
 
I don't say this to diminish what you felt for him, or the good times you had with him, but from what limited knowledge I have with such things in reading about others, this seems like a common reaction of people who date "types" instead of people. Not that you need to know or will ever know, but I'd be willing to bet he's moved on to his next young man, who will also one day require him to be an emotionally accountable lover and not a daddy (as he may seem himself), and he'll move on from that one too.
 
Puff said:
It's going to the trash. I think he could have been polite about it though,
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.........don't throw it!
DONATE usable stuff to a charity organization instead........please.......
 
Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
Cool. Then that chapter's gone. You have one less [STRIKE]person[/STRIKE] asshole in your life.
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Kara got there first.

You were generous.

He's a fucking tool.

Mail his shit back to him anyway.
 
seven2go said:
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.........don't throw it!
DONATE usable stuff to a charity organization instead........please.......
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It's kind of a no-win situation. These freaks are the same ones that will accuse you throwing away their valuable shit after they claim they don't want it back.

I do like the idea of donating it if is usable. Maybe there's a thankful, decent human being out there than can make use of it. And it would be nice to make lemonade from the lemons of an ungrateful ex...
 
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