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LilBit

LilBit

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Right now I think I'm better off being single. I have too much going on in my life, and I don't think I'd be able to devote enough time and attention to a relationship.

I'm also a bit tired of relationships that prioritize sex over closeness.
 
Shaman said:
Everyone that are alone join the club here and cry and whine together here. Share Stories if you like.

I'm just the kind that are loved like a Brother or as a best friend. I feel great now (not) now everybody lets hold hands and sing and share your crap.
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Welcome to the sad, and lonely club. I'm a life member...:(:cry:
 
I am a lonely chicken. :(

I've never had any experience with any guy, ever.

What I actually want most is just to touch a guy, feel his skin, then kiss him a bit on his chest and stomach.

That is ALL I have wanted to do, and wanted most, for YEARS now.

I find it so ironic that I'm more likely to get full-blown sex before I'll ever be granted that one, simple, wish.


:-({|=
 
Shaman said:
Its alright now we just cry in groups

(The Wave of Crying People on JUB)
:cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry: etc.
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I've been trying to convince myself that it's alright for many years. Hasn't worked, I'm still just as sad, lonely, and unhappy as ever. That's why I said I'm a life member of the club. I know I'll be this way until it's over...:( Maybe it'll be over soon...:D
 
Look up 'Natasha Bedingfield, Single' on youtube. x
 
It seems nearly impossible to find a guy where I live..
 
I thought your profile said "partnered" some time recently...did I misread?

Whatever the case, you've struck me as a smart guy with a fun ebgaging outlook. (And yes, I think you've got a great ass on top of that.) And if you can get me interested, I have a feeling you can get others interested, too. :)

Lex

Lex
 
I can't be the only one to consider awkward and silly to be endearing traits. :)

Lex
 
anchihiro said:
Look up 'Natasha Bedingfield, Single' on youtube. x
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Huh. I just happen to be listening to that album right now.

birddog7 said:
I've been trying to convince myself that it's alright for many years. Hasn't worked, I'm still just as sad, lonely, and unhappy as ever. That's why I said I'm a life member of the club. I know I'll be this way until it's over...:( Maybe it'll be over soon...:D
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I've asked you this several times, but you've never answered. Are you in therapy? Because those feelings are NOT normal, nor are they healthy. And quite frankly, your negative outlook on life is not going to help you find a man.

When you posted pictures, the feedback was universally positive. You are a physically attractive man, but your attitude is extremely unattractive. The good thing is, that's something that you have the power to change. But it's not going to change if you don't DO something about it.

If you can't afford a therapist, you may want to look into seeing a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). They can provide a lot of the services of a psychiatrist (with the exception of writing prescriptions, I believe) for much cheaper.
 
Yep, that's me.

Lately I've noticed how hard it has been for me to engage with people, or show any interest in them. Unless the person is really intelligent or interesting (or a cute guy, ashamed as I am to admit), I tend to forget their names, tune out of conversation and/or prefer my own company - especially where there's internet access.

People close to me have repeated the same thing, that I "live in my own world". And that started to freak me out, because it sounds too much like autism. I can't go on like this if I want to have a carreer - and I want it so bad.

I need to honestly appreciate people if I want to make friends and be a better person. How do I do that?
 
>>>LilBit and G-Lexington you guys are making me blush.

Woo-hoo - there might be more butt shots in our future! :)

>>>I need to honestly appreciate people if I want to make friends and be a better person. How do I do that?

I wish this were easy to answer. People do interest me. Not what they're interested in, necessarily, but their interest interests me. I can relate to them getting excited about things, learning more about them, discovering what they like and dislike. However, I found I can't do this for TV and movies, and it usually means they'll simply recount the plot to me. :)

Lex
 
I like you with or without butt shots...but butt shots are always welcome. ;D

Lex
 
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