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All Consuming Horni-ness

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Oral Fixation

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Ok, this is quite a serious issue for me: I was just wondering if it's me, am I weird or something, or does anyone else feel this way:

I seem pretty 'normal', down-to-earth, very shy, introverted and introspective - all that.

However, underneath that, I generally live in a state of constant horniness? that is sometimes just all consuming (where you feel like you have no control of it). I constantly, and I mean constantly, think about sex or something sex-, man-, naked-man-, etc-related, even though I am in a LTR!

To me, just going to work is a parade of man-meat (LOL) (and it does not even matter whether the guy is attractive/my type or not). If I see a guy, it's like a trigger response to think about something sexual, or more typically, start wondering about the guy, what he would look like naked, or with just undewear on, or even 'would I have sex with this guy', or hmmm, what would the sex be like (better still, what I would like the sex to be like). It feels like an involuntary reaction, and it's not something that I would act upon, but is sometimes so distracting I can't even seem to think straight (no pun)! Like I said, an all-consuming horniness!

It's like, say you haven't j'd/off in a couple of days (yes, difficult as that is), on the last day, when you feel like you just can't take anymore...I feel like that last day all the time, to the point where it sometimes clouds my brain, or even causes me to lose focus/concentration. Sometimes, I feel like I just live for sex!!!

Is it me, am I just over-sexed (I am 27 years old btw), or does anyone else feel this way? :confused: :help:
 
I'm in college.... SO many hottie everywhere! But can't do anything. ...

and no privacy to... take care of business, so end result: I REALLY have to get the most out of my weekend visits with my BF.

Not being horny makes it easier for me to work, less distraction by random guys.
 
I'm not horny a lot, but I always have been 'different' ;)

I'm definitely not an average male.
 
thewaffler2 said:
I'm in college.... SO many hottie everywhere! But can't do anything. ...

and no privacy to... take care of business, so end result: I REALLY have to get the most out of my weekend visits with my BF.

Not being horny makes it easier for me to work, less distraction by random guys.
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you mean you don't have wild 48 hour gay sex orgies in your dorm? Where you get to have your way with every hot guy in your dorm? rub oil all over their bodies and make wild rabbit love to them on your dorm room bed???

Man i miss those days* of college!




* days = dreams
 
The horniness never goes away. When I was in my twenties, I had that coupled with an almost unbearable urge to get away, do something, move, do anything but stay where I was. The restless feelings settled down but the sex drive doesn't. As others have pointed out, practically EVERY male you see triggers an immediate response. And when you're alone, you find yourself fantatsizing and daydreaming about men.

Welcome to the male half of the human race.
 
Lol, maybe if I got some ass that wouldn't be me... but right now... it pretty much is! :p
 
Consider yourself normal. Instead of looking at it as a burden, enjoy it! It does'nt matter if you're 27 or 97, you are always going to think of sex constantly. Would you rather think of work or bills or all the horrific shit in this world constantly? So if what if you're always hard? If you can't get laid, beat off until you can't anymore. Buy some jerk-off devices or make one. If you have the constant desire to get fucked silly (like i do) buy some dildoes, vibrators, anal beads...or find something around the house. Think of being horny all the time as one of the greatest joys in life.
 
Sound perfectly normal to me too. Even at my age I think of sex, dream of sex and sometimes do it and I do consider myself normal.
 
Ah...yeah...normal, but it's the pot smoking.
 
I wonder, Oral Fixation, did you do a lot of playing around before you settled into your long-term relationship? The constant wondering and fantasizing sounds like someone who hasn't quite satisfied his curiosity about male bodies other than his own. Just a thought.

Another thought: do you also make grandiose plans a lot, find it difficult to distinguish between the possible and the impossible? Do you have trouble getting to sleep at night, with lots of different ideas chasing each-other around in your mind? Do you talk really fast?

Then you may be experiencing a manic phase or a certain kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder... I know that I thought about sex every time I saw a man when I was on the manic end of my bipolar cycles; and then when I saw someone I found hot, it took every ounce of self-restraint I possessed to keep myself from biting him (my oral fixations tend toward biting rather than sucking, which makes me very unpopular in certain circles).

But if it's just plain old horniness, there's nothing wrong with being oversexed... so long as it doesn't distract you from the rest of your life. And if it does, that's why there are doors on bathroom stalls... go squeeze one out at lunchtime, you'll feel better the rest of the day. And jump the hubby as often as possible; whenever not possible, do it yourself (spanking the monkey isn't cheating).

If you don't milk a cow every day, it experiences intense discomfort and pain, and will start mooing so loud that you can hear it from miles away. Think of your cock as a cow, and milk it regularly. At age twenty-seven, if I didn't get an orgasm every 24 hours, I got really really cranky; nowadays (age thirty-eight), I can skip a couple of days before the pressure starts building up, but I have to be really really tired to forego my favorite bedtime treat.
 
provenlogic said:
you mean you don't have wild 48 hour gay sex orgies in your dorm? Where you get to have your way with every hot guy in your dorm? rub oil all over their bodies and make wild rabbit love to them on your dorm room bed???

Man i miss those days* of college!




* days = dreams
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That's only on the third tuesday of each month.... ... .........

Plus... all the hot ones are at a different dorm... I have my fantasies, I learned a lot about day-dreaming here.
 
You might try talking to someone. Try the Health and Wellness Forum if you're not getting the advice you want here.
It's normal. But maybe it could be better for you somehow.
 
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