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Resident Enginerd
After not finding anyone I'd seriously want to date for so long, I now have two guys I'm interested in. I'm 31.
Guy 1 is a physician with his own practice, 36. He earns a fair bit more than I do, so I feel like there's a bit of a culture clash there. I live carefully and cook most meals. He goes out for nearly everything. We started as "friends". Rather ambiguous. We've gone out for dinner three times now. I find him physically attractive (I generally prefer slim guys who aren't too muscular). I'm a romantic who dreams of Prince Charming. He isn't nearly as romantic. I always find it very difficult to make the first move, especially sexually. I don't have that much experience in that department. And to top it all off, we share the same first name. Anyone else have that experience?
Even though we've only met a few times, I can definitely picture bringing him home to meet my parents and eventually marrying him.
Guy 2, 21, college student studying big data, has a wonderful, warm personality. We are very alike in that regard. He's definitely more muscular. We've slept together without sex. Being wrapped in his arms was a lovely thing. He's a VERY mature 21 yr old. He's black, though more of the milk chocolate variety. I also find him quite attractive, though I will admit he doesn't fit my curly blond hair-blue eyed Prince Charming fantasy. While he is very mature, I find the age difference to be at least mildly troubling--he's still in college after all! I have more difficulty picturing bringing him home to meet my parents--both the age and race thing.
My head and heart are confused about both guys. Where do I stand with Guy 1? Friends or more? With Guy 2, is the age and life experience gap to large to have a successful relationship?
Guy 1 is a physician with his own practice, 36. He earns a fair bit more than I do, so I feel like there's a bit of a culture clash there. I live carefully and cook most meals. He goes out for nearly everything. We started as "friends". Rather ambiguous. We've gone out for dinner three times now. I find him physically attractive (I generally prefer slim guys who aren't too muscular). I'm a romantic who dreams of Prince Charming. He isn't nearly as romantic. I always find it very difficult to make the first move, especially sexually. I don't have that much experience in that department. And to top it all off, we share the same first name. Anyone else have that experience?
Even though we've only met a few times, I can definitely picture bringing him home to meet my parents and eventually marrying him.
Guy 2, 21, college student studying big data, has a wonderful, warm personality. We are very alike in that regard. He's definitely more muscular. We've slept together without sex. Being wrapped in his arms was a lovely thing. He's a VERY mature 21 yr old. He's black, though more of the milk chocolate variety. I also find him quite attractive, though I will admit he doesn't fit my curly blond hair-blue eyed Prince Charming fantasy. While he is very mature, I find the age difference to be at least mildly troubling--he's still in college after all! I have more difficulty picturing bringing him home to meet my parents--both the age and race thing.
My head and heart are confused about both guys. Where do I stand with Guy 1? Friends or more? With Guy 2, is the age and life experience gap to large to have a successful relationship?
