Almost beat up an older guy

[darkdreamerx]

Well I have a friend who gets really angry at a moments notice. He's straight and puts a lot of himself into things (relationships, etc.) and it never seems to work out for him. Well, I was telling him after a break up that he shouldn't worry since he put a lot into the relationship and the girl didn't put any back and that it would be okay. He then grabbed me by the neck and threw me into the wall, choking me for a minute. I was pretty upset that he did this, but sometimes we hate to get used especially after we have tolerated it (for whatever reason) for so long. There are similar elements in this story. He's put a lot of his time, sexual energy, and emotion into maintaining this "relationship" even when he's getting used. Eventually someone had to break.

 

[Fucker29]

Well I have a friend who gets really angry at a moments notice. He's straight and puts a lot of himself into things (relationships, etc.) and it never seems to work out for him. Well, I was telling him after a break up that he shouldn't worry since he put a lot into the relationship and the girl didn't put any back and that it would be okay. He then grabbed me by the neck and threw me into the wall, choking me for a minute. I was pretty upset that he did this, but sometimes we hate to get used especially after we have tolerated it (for whatever reason) for so long. There are similar elements in this story. He's put a lot of his time, sexual energy, and emotion into maintaining this "relationship" even when he's getting used. Eventually someone had to break.

Um...no. You should read another one of his threads and you'd realize how disturbed this young man really is.

 

[darkdreamerx]

The only thing the OP put into this relationship wsa his legs in the air, and he's so egotistical that he sees it as doing a favor for this older guy. There isn't a micro-ounce of his emotions invested in this relationship, he was basically a one-client prostitute and I've never heard of prostitutes being emotionally attached to their clients.

He used this old man and now he feels disgusted with himself for sinking that low, though his self-hatred manifests into hatred towards the old man for, I guess, existing. I hope he seeks counseling and I wish him well, but you were giving him way too much credit.

Most teenagers aren't mature enough to realize what they are putting out in a relationship. That's why I gave him the benefit of the doubt.

 

[Persian89]

Marley is right -_-
I don't got anger issues at all, I just felt totally pissed of during that short period of time, I didn't know the reason then.

I mean usually I wouldnt feel that bad, I would have enjoyed the sex and the swag, but this time I didn't.

 

[Persian89]

I don't know why I can't do it anymore, I used to be able to pull stuff like this off without feeling bad.
Could it be the alcohol or... I Just recently broke up, it shouldn't.

 

[chance1]

^ talkikng to someone professional could help

it would help

when i first read ur story i thought u were a major douchebag

the guy maybe bad news - but ur treatment of him was over the top and unwarranted

some good advice above but hopefully it resonates with u and u find the help that u need (which is not a terrible thing)