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Am I a bad guy? Sex on the 2nd Date! This happened Yesterday.....

Ah man - nope you're not a bad guy.

Frankly that second date sounds hot as all hell - calm down a bit and like the others have said, don't over-think it or stalk the guy with too many questions.

Some of us will freak out a bit at the merest sniff of commitment, if you're still keen then it's up to you to find out whether that's just an initial reaction while he gets used to the idea or whether he was thinking something short term only.

From there it's up to both of you whether anything more is going to come from it. Take it easy.
 
The desire for sex is a very intense physical emotion. Guys will do a lot to get into your pants and you'll be surprised just how flakey they are once they have it.

My experience on the matter has been to wait a few times. If you're looking to date someone, get to know them more than just one or two awesome dates. Sure, you can have sex after the first date, but don't be surprised if you're disappointed with what turns out to be one hook-up after another.

It sounds to me you get frustrated and disappointed easily, so I recommend waiting a few days to match your personality of expectations more. Also, I've found the longer you wait, the more intense and lasting it is. ;)

As for this guy, I think I may know why he reacted the way he did. Based on your description of sex, did you bareback him? You didn't mention anything about a condom, just that you had slid into him. Some guys may freak out in guilt over barebacking with a guy they hardly know.
 
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