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Am I A Bigot

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Whats wrong with protecting your own wellbeing? If i was to have a roommate live with me, i would also check if he has contagious diseases, like TB, and i certainty dont want a druggie. If i was to meet someone to have sex with, the criteriaes would be even higher. Its your right to be safe. Yes, hiv positive people are still quite safe if you guys use a condom, but the chance that the guy also having other std, given that he already has aids, are quite high. Like take herpes as an example, it gets transmitted through any bodily fluids, i think even though a kiss (someone pls verify), and its incurable. Personally, i would rather be safe than sorry. And if he is really one of the good guys, he should understand the dilemma you are in. It would be selfish of him to put you in any danger.
 
You're just protecting yourself by stating you do not want anyone that does drugs or has any type of disease. If he has a problem respecting your wishes or desires then fuck him.
 
I wouldnt even give that guy a second thought...Its your preference and should be respected..But for a side note..You really cant believe a guy even if he says negative..Just play safe always!
 
Ah,.........No you are not a bigot in that respect.
 
I don't think having standards makes you a biggot. BUT (and it doesnt sound like this is the case) don't use those standards to hurt people or exclude them without knowing whats going on. IF you are just looking for sex then I think you are within your rights to exclude things that are not superficially appealing. But if this guy wants to be friends then I think you need to be a little more relaxed and open to that possibility assuming you are looking for possible friendships too. Having HIV can be very ostrasizing, which is kinda stupid since it can be spread by something most of us like to do, namely sex.
 
Nope, I do not see that as being a bigot.

I see that you want to limit your contacts to the people, who are D/D free. That's fine, too.

IRL, however, you ought to assume that people are not telling you the truth, partly coz they may not know the truth, and partly coz they do not see any reason not to lie to you.

As one of the previous posters said: Go Safe Only.

If someone doesn't want it? Cool. Don't fuck him.

SC
 
jft245 said:
You're just protecting yourself by stating you do not want anyone that does drugs or has any type of disease. If he has a problem respecting your wishes or desires then fuck him.
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Don't fuck him, tell him to fuck off and I am sure that is what jft245 means.

Second, don't waste anymore of your time or energy on the guy. He is just "baiting" you.
 
No that's not being a bigot.

But I hope you realize that asking someone if he's disease free is not enough to protect yourself.

Some men with STDs don't tell prospective sex partners.

For some men, appearing sexually desirable is more important than personal integrity.
 
gaz1978 said:
What exactly does the phrase "D/D free" mean?
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Drug & Disease Free

You are NOT a bigot! If I undergo procedures at the hospital and demand they use sterile instruments, is that biggotry? Not at all! It would not be anything personal towards the previous patient, just protecting myself.
 
it's not you, you're lovely. he's just being a knobhead with no knob!
 
He's just being sensitive. Lots of hook up sites have DD UB2. You weren't being bigoted, becaus eint eh realm of NSA sex, you want to be that much safer. You're not discriminating against him as a person, you're discriminating against the possibility of catching HIV.
 
cellular said:
Like take herpes as an example, it gets transmitted through any bodily fluids, i think even though a kiss (someone pls verify), and its incurable.
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Herpes isn't transmitted through bodily fluids at all. It is transmitted through skin contact. This means that a condom will not protect you (although a full body suit might). You contract herpes by having physical contact with an open herpes sore (or saliva, mucus, or skin that came into contact with the sore). Because these sores appear on the genitals and lips, they are often transmitted through sex and kissing.

Be aware that there more multiple strains of herpes. Genital Herpes is the more annoying one, while Oral Herpes is actually quite common. In fact, most people have at least one strain of herpes before they reach adulthood. It is possible for oral herpes to migrate to the genitals, but it's not common.
 
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