Am i bi or gay for watching transexual porn please help?

[tone20]

I identify as straight but this one time I watched it and got turned and after I felt so depressed like could I be gay or bi I've never been attracted to men and when I dont watch porn I'm always thing about girls when I masturbate I've watched alot of weird porn but this has really got me questioning myself could my whole life be a lie am I really gay or bi in denial plus I'm a 20 year old virgin what if I never have sex with a girl now btw I've been going crazy over this for to years testing myself watching transsexual porn Idk what to do can anybody help me i came here figured people here would understand what im going through

 

[KaraBulut]

Am i bi or gay for watching transexual porn?

No. You have to actually have to want to have sex with a man (and like it) to be considered gay or bi.

I'm a 20 year old virgin what if I never have sex with a girl now btw I've been going crazy over this for to years testing myself watching transsexual porn Idk what to do can anybody help me i came here figured people here would understand what im going through

It's possible that you're gay or bi. Worse things could happen.

It's more likely that you have an obsessive-compulsive disorder and/or an anxiety disorder.

 

[Willie Boy]

What exactly do you consider to be transsexual porn? Seems to me it could either be men who were born women or women who were born men.... In either case their sex is what they currently are..... Are they maybe only partway through the transformation????? Changed up top, but not below?

 

[Benvolio]

You are not gay unless you are attracted to men. I suggest you try same gay male porn- no women and no transsexual. Then try some lesbian porn- no men. See which turns you on. That should settle the question. I predict you will confirm that you are straight. Gay guys don't fantasize about girls when they masturbate. Stop worrying. A 20 year old is so horney he can get turned on by most anything but it will pass.

 

[Telstra]

What exactly do you consider to be transsexual porn? Seems to me it could either be men who were born women or women who were born men.... In either case their sex is what they currently are..... Are they maybe only partway through the transformation????? Changed up top, but not below?

The current Bruce/Caitlin Jenner having sex with a man is a transexual sex.

 

[Seasoned]

Some people compartmentalize when it comes to sex and might have tastes in porn that doesn't match real life experiences, wants or needs. If you don't have a sexual outlet outside of masturbation your sex drive may cause you to change what you like in porn, upping the ante to make things more exciting. There are things that turn me on in porn that I'd never be interested in doing in actuality.

Your body and mind and emotions are all craving sexual experience.

 

[G-Lexington]

It's possible that you're gay or bi. Worse things could happen.

It's more likely that you have an obsessive-compulsive disorder and/or an anxiety disorder.

This, mainly.

It seems a fair chunk of guys end up approaching porn in something of a bizarre fashion. Porn is basically meant to make you horny. You watch it, you get turned on, you masturbate, you orgasm, you turn it off, you clean up, and you go about your daily business. But some guys seem to get really involved in this "What Does It All Mean" mindset. They start over-analyzing what they're watching, and try to extrapolate things about themselves based on it. "I enjoy it more when the guys are more aggressive - does that mean I hate women?" "I noticed I like large-chested women - does that imply some sort of mother issue?" "I watched gay porn and liked it - does that mean I'm actually gay?"

Here's what's probably going on. You've obviously watched at least "your fair share" of porn. And often when guys do this, they find there's something of a burn-out factor. Average porn can get a bit dull, and not as inspiring. So guys tend to crank it up a notch. Find something a bit more "out there". More aggressive porn. Fetish porn. Bondage. Three-ways. And yes, transsexual and gay porn. And it often delivers an extra "jolt" to the system because it's new and different and even a bit extra "naughty". But it doesn't have to mean anything more than that. Unless you walk away from watching it thinking "Damn - I really want THAT!", it was probably just an extra jolt of excitement from the novelty and "forbidden factor".

Something to look out for. Some guys use situations such as yours to remain in place. To avoid meeting people, and dating, and having sex. Because hey - "maybe I don't know what I am yet. Maybe I'm actually gay. I'd better do more research to be sure." No, fuck that. You don't need a thousand spank sessions (which you probably have passed anyway) to have a basic idea what you're into. It seems like what you're into is women. So go out, meet some women, date some women, and have sex with some women. And have fun, damnit.

Lex