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am I bi?

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I am really attracted to women, I LOVE the ladies. Everything about them. But, for guys faces and body's don't turn me on. Just their cocks and the act of having sex. I kind of think of it as me having more sex, so why not? It's not real erotic for me to have sex with a guy but I blow my load and am satisfied. Better then jerking off, right?


What do you think? Definitely bi?
 
I'm bi... I know what you mean... I think you are interested; it doesn't mean you are bi. But if you really like men as you like women, you are bi.
 
What difference would it make if you called yourself "bi" or not? Would it change your feelings on men and women? You are who you are, and that's fine.
 
hummer7979 said:
What difference would it make if you called yourself "bi" or not? Would it change your feelings on men and women? You are who you are, and that's fine.
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That's not a very helpful answer because it does mean something to me and I would like to sort out my feelings now so im not a mess in a few years. I have feelings for women more then just sex but my feelings for men are all about sex. What constitutes being BI?
 
Snowboarder said:
That's not a very helpful answer because it does mean something to me and I would like to sort out my feelings now so im not a mess in a few years. I have feelings for women more then just sex but my feelings for men are all about sex. What constitutes being BI?
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You sound bi to me.

Your feelings for women are romantic. You could be in a relationship with them and live happy right? But your feelings for men are just sexual. No feelings other then the need to get your rocks off. You sound Bi. Might I suggest that you check out the other threads here in the Bi Forum here and you might find the answer you seek in there. Also try not to get too hung up on poster's responses or your feelings. Many of the gay guys on here have no love for bi guys and right now the mods are doing a wonderful job at making sure both sides stay nice to each other! :) Also, Rome wasn't built in a day. These feelings that your having are going to take sometime on your part to understand them. This sounds like it's all new to you. So treat it like the first time you rode a bike. Sure your going to make mistakes, sure your going to fall off and sure your going to get frustrated. But just take a deep breath and get back on. It will come to you all in due time.

Good luck to you
(*8*)
 
Snowboarder said:
I am really attracted to women, I LOVE the ladies. Everything about them. But, for guys faces and body's don't turn me on. Just their cocks and the act of having sex. I kind of think of it as me having more sex, so why not? It's not real erotic for me to have sex with a guy but I blow my load and am satisfied. Better then jerking off, right?


What do you think? Definitely bi?
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Feelings are difficult to sort out. Please take this as simple observation, and in no way as an attack. You simply may have a curiosity, and that turns you on.

May I ask, you say "not real erotic" as opposed to not erotic. Are you ruling out the possibility of a relationship with a man?
 
Snowboarder said:
I am really attracted to women, I LOVE the ladies. Everything about them. But, for guys faces and body's don't turn me on. Just their cocks and the act of having sex. I kind of think of it as me having more sex, so why not? It's not real erotic for me to have sex with a guy but I blow my load and am satisfied. Better then jerking off, right?


What do you think? Definitely bi?
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Yes i have heard that before and i find it interesting that some guy ONLY like dick and nothing else. For me i like almost everything about hot guy including face, body, dick and legs.:-)
 
Yeah maybe you guys can help me out too...I always watched straight porn, looked at my dad's Playboys, when I was young-er, and loved it, and then probably got bored and looked for something new and in 8th grade started getting into gay porn.

But the things is that I think I'm only into men as physical objects. The best relationships I have are with girls, and I can get off to women, its just a lot more pleasureable and I get off more to guys. But with guys its not at all about any connection, its about their bodies and the physical aspects, even in my fantasies I'm just using guys...but with girls I have dreams about girls and kissing and actually feeling good with them. What do you guys think? Do I just have some fetish?
 
xerxes60 said:
Hi Snowboarder

It sounds to me like you are predominantly heterosexual, but you do have a latent gay tendency. You have normal sexual and emotional feelings for women, but also have some sexual attraction to men, in particular their cocks.

I'm a bit confused by your statement that it's not erotic to have sex with a guy but you blow your load. Sorry but it doesn't make sense to me. If I was with a partner that I was not attracted to, and did not find the situation erotic, then I would have difficulty maintaining an erection, let alone coming to climax.

Just curious and do not be offended if I am wrong here: are you attracted to 'pre-op' transexuals? There seem to be some men who are attracted to people who are women in every physical sense, e.g. having breasts and a feminine physique, except that they have penises. From reading what you say, this might possibly something which you would find satisfying. But again, if not, then please don't take offence.
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It's not that it's not erotic. It's just as erotic as if I were to beat off, except I don't have to beat off. It's like I would rather have sex with a women anyday but if I had a gay friend who wanted to have sex and I had nothing to do, I would do it. It's sex and I love having sex. Climaxing and getting/staying hard is never ever a problem no matter who im having sex with.

Naw, TG/TS don't turn me on. I would prolly have sex with one just like I would have sex with a man but it wouldn't be especially erotic.
 
Snowboarder said:
That's not a very helpful answer because it does mean something to me and I would like to sort out my feelings now so im not a mess in a few years. I have feelings for women more then just sex but my feelings for men are all about sex. What constitutes being BI?
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I'm sorry I wasn't being helpful. I didn't mean to sound pedantic. I was merely suggesting that your problem isn't that you are attracted to men or women, but that you are going through an identity crisis, not a sexual one.

You are an individual with complex sexual desires, just like everyone else. If it makes you feel better to be in a category, then yes you are likely bisexual. If you do not deny sexual feelings for both sexes, then you are likely neither straight nor gay. And that is absolutely normal.

You should embrace your sexuality and explore it. Try relationships with guys and girls alike. It doesn't matter that you're bisexual. Do what feels right for you.
 
I think that you're bi-curious; you prefer to persue romantic relationships with girls but you're open for a romp with the guys.

Nothing to worry about, as long as you don't play with another guys feelings or send him the wrong signals.
 
Your Bi. Your Horny as Hell Too. LoL.#-o Let's face it,your more into women as LTR partners and Men are just a fuck buddy to you. Let's get are rocks off together and then head out to the ballgame and pick up some broads later at the bar.If,we get lucky great. If not we can help each other out . Your that type of Bi-guy.:sex:*|*
 
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