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Am I bisexual?

Is there only 3 colors, only 3 types of music? There's rarely 3 of anything....it's a label....like music, sex doesn't judge you, so why judge sex? You just gotta see what you really like, what does it for you and what doesn't. Things can change sometimes.

To the "straight" guy above me that said straight porn looked fake and he liked gay porn better. That's hilarious because I'm "gay" and straight porn is hotter to me because it's more intense, in gay porn, it might look more real but all the guys look bored to death. I'm a cartoony, fun, intense person. And the gay guys don't seem to have very much chemistry with each other. The guys don't even look like they really want to fuck 9 times out of 10. It's SO dissapointing.
 
Exactly slnattak,

I just think sexual preference is not as simple as some people make it out to be. That's why I tend to agree more with the Kinsey scale of sexuality because you're degree of sexual attraction to one sex can't really be measured to a finite degree. There's always going to be a variation, whether you prefer one or the other or both. Some days you may feel like being with a dude or you like dick that day and another day you might like pussy, I know I feel that way sometimes LOL :) honestly I've fucked both and I like both and I can see myself spending the rest of my life with a girl or may be even (even though at the moment I haven't) with a guy. Whether I find the right PERSON for me is really what's important , not the sex of that person. Sex is simple and complicated just like people are ordinary and complex. Sexual attraction is human behavior and it has the potential to change. Just my HO:)
 
I've never killed anyone before, but sometimes people really piss me off! Does this make me a murderer?

You say your still a virgin? Get out and try different things that the world has to offer.

My first time with a guy was kinda simple, but fun. I thought gay sex was not right for me, but I've tried more and liked it.

Your opinion will change as you try more things. Some you will like, some well, maybe not. Once you have been around a while choose what side your on if you want, or not. It's just a label, and sex is just sex no matter whom your having it with.

Enjoy and be careful
 
Same thing happened to me in the past. I've always wanted a relationship with a girl and hot steamy sex with a guy.
 
I still consider myself new to the whole guy-on-guy thing... I fooled around with a guy for the first time 18 months ago... Yeah, pretty much had the full circle of experiences since then. As far as the romance, I felt the same way as you until recently. Thought of a relationship with a guy never existed until this summer. I told everyone I still considered myself bi because I only liked guys sexually...not romantically. And females was the opposite...I liked the romance with the ladies. All that changed about females 14 months ago when the last one I dated went nuts... I finally had enough. I've dated 2 guys although neither was a long term relationship. I still haven't come to terms with saying "I'm gay"... although I've been attracted to guys sexually since I hit puberty...and was always curious of guys when I was even younger. I didn't put pressure on myself to be ready for a relationship with a guy...it was just natural progression I guess.
 
same problem, I know that I'm not a 100% straight, but I also feel that I may not be a 100% gay either. I really think that if I had sex with a guy one time that I may go back to being interested in just girls. I'm turned on equally by both. My biggest dilema is if I came out said Hey I'm Here & I'm queer, I would every single person in my life right now and I don't want that to happen.
 
This kind of thread is exactly the reason I joined this forum.

I love dick. I love the smell of it and I love the look of it and god help me I love the feel of it. But I also love women. I love women with a passion. I remember when I was in High School asking my friends if they thought I was gay because you know of the dick thing. And each and every one of them guys and girls had the same answer. "Dude, you like women way too much to be gay." Even my closest friend who I secretly wanted to lick his balls and shaft from his asshole to his helmet more than I wanted to find god would swear to this day that I am a straight man. Came really close to fulfilling that fantasy one day when we were getting high in my apartment I leaned over and was about 8 inches from burying my head in his crotch but thought better of it and played it off like I was just laughing (and lost control of my lips, lol).

I live in NYC and grew up in the village, so its not as big a deal if I came out as gay. In fact it would be easier if I were gay. My boss is gay and many people that I work with are gay. I would probably advance in my profession a lot faster if I were JUST gay and not JUST weird. I have tried to be gay. My mother is gay. My mother's lover is gay (lol). But as hard as I try I find that I am not. I have had sex with 3 men in my life and truly my fantasies about fucking men are a whole lot better.

So my question would be... Am I bisexual?

I love women I love making love to women I love fucking women and I love eating pussy more than I like fried chicken but my hottest fantasies include me in a sun dress, high heels and a line of 7 to 10 guys who each fuck me in the ass again and again and cum in my face treating me like the dirty little slut that I am or the prison fantasy that I don't want to go into right now but trust me it's hot. (And no matter what you may have heard my ass BELONGS to Big Bruno. He owns it. "Whose ass is this?" "It's your Papi. It's yours").

It's just so easy to think that I am just plain weird and that's all. And that's the part that makes me feel so alone. I have had girlfriends who did the strap-on thing and that's nice but it's not the same. My first girlfriend liked to say that I would love her more if she had a penis. and my question after that would be.. "Then do you think I'm gay?" and her answer was and always is... "Dude, you like women way too much to be gay."
 
I don't think sexual identity is just something you identify with by just having sex with a guy or a girl. It's also about how attracted to a person you are with, with pretty much all aspects such as personality, emotion, and physical attractiveness. Being bisexual (at least for me) I can say that I've had better emotional relationships with women. I feel like I can tell a chick(or my girlfriend, sorry babe lol) more about me than I can with a guy. It still feels "awkward" when I try to let emotions(at least the ones that matter) out towards a guy. I don't think I ever will feel comfortable with that but time will tell. To me I think you haven't experienced a TRUE relationship to know what you feel like you are. It's cool if you like the pus, and the dick, but until you actually "feel" a person COMPLETELY, you still have some maturing to do before you can make an assumption of what you feel comfortable being called by other people.
 
You know I'm not comfortable with any labels.

I have had fantastic relationships with either sex or even lesser species. That's not the point. And sex has nothing to do with it.

Not being able to open up with your guy friends is more of a representation of who your friends are and who you are than whether they are male or female.

To me... People who don't have sex with a given or opposite sex are strange. It is prejudice. Of course supposedly it is the norm. I don't actually believe that. I think there are more bisexual people than there are men or women separately. From Yay blow jobs for everyone to hell no don't put that thing in my mouth and all points in between.
 
ManSizedHunger said:
You know I'm not comfortable with any labels.

I have had fantastic relationships with either sex or even lesser species. That's not the point. And sex has nothing to do with it.

Not being able to open up with your guy friends is more of a representation of who your friends are and who you are than whether they are male or female.

To me... People who don't have sex with a given or opposite sex are strange. It is prejudice. Of course supposedly it is the norm. I don't actually believe that. I think there are more bisexual people than there are men or women separately. From Yay blow jobs for everyone to hell no don't put that thing in my mouth and all points in between.
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If you're in a healthy, stable relationship, I WOULD HOPE sex would have some part in it LOL. Of course it would be ridiculous if you based an entire relationship on sex alone, but in terms of sexual identification, I think it's practical to consider all aspects of a relationship (sex included). I don't think I get you're explanation of my "guy friends" so I'll let you give me a better explanation on that one.

I don't think that people who don't sleep with the same or opposite sex is strange because each individual is entitled to have sex with whomever they want to, but I do agree that isn't the norm for people to have sex with ONLY the same and opposite sex based on their supposed sexual orientations.

If you aren't comfortable with labels, then "Am I bisexual" should be a question that shouldn't come to mind for you. You are who you say you are and I would hope that you wouldn't let anyone tell you different should anyone tell you you're bi, straight, or gay, cause of course, these are labels and it wouldn't matter.
 
But it does matter because at sometime during your dealings with people the question of what box you fit into comes up. Repub or Demo, Yankees or Red Sox Shirts or Skins. Dick or Pussy.

I met this hot girl and me and my friend double dated her and her friend. We were both bi but our friends were Gay and Straight respectively. By the end of the day it was pussy or dick and no other choices.

Its also nice to belong and not feel like you're alone.

To clarify my point about friends. My straight guy friends and my gay guy friends are all artists or creative people. My straight girl friends and my lesbian girl friends are also all sensitive creative people. Like me. They wouldn't be my friends otherwise. If there was something about my life that I couldn't tell any one of my friends then I would examine them as a friend, me as a person or our relationship as a whole and something would change.
 
Thanks beardedwolf

I got a 3.6 (You are completely bisexual.) Who knew, I'm alot closer to 4 than I thought I was :)
 
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