Am I gay if I enjoy gay porn?

[Toxxxic]

How do you know for sure that you don't like guys if you havent tried it? I've always been with girls and never would have thought that i could fall for a man... until i met 'him'. Every now and then, I find myself still attracted to girls, I actually still have some feelings towards my first love (girl) and I also want to have a family when I'm older.

 

[Claudio63]

You sound very much bisexual to me. I'd say if you don't want to be gay, stop watching gay porn and don't try having sex with men, because I have a feeling you'd get hooked if you tried it. Not that there's anything wrong with being gay.

 

[hunky69]

give it some time (my guess is that you're probably pretty young). I was the same way through high school. Except I found that it became always gay porn, and more of the "well I could never have a relationship with a guy... just sex" and then I had a relationship and at first had a lot of trouble with it, but eventually warmed up to the idea. I would say your problem is probably more of accepting that you most likely have homosexual tendencies and that it doesn't mean it's the end of your life as you'd planned it. I still consider myself bi as I like women, but I defenitely am more attracted sexually to men. And look around here and see that it's easy to be happy and have a family without having to fit into the socially prescribed nuclear unit.

 

[yeeeaaahhh]

Hey there buddy! I am glad that you posted this question. Because I am JUST LIKE YOU! I like girls a lot. And I want to be with a girl and everything. But, I think guys are HOT! So, what am I? IDK, who the fuck really cares? What's important is to be okay with how you feel, and you shoudn't worry so much about the label that corresponds. Do you get what I am saying?
Furthermore, personally, I am of the stance that if something did happen with a guy, I'd be perfectly okay with it. Now, I don't know if you share this opinion, but I think that you might want to consider it. I mean, if you think guys are hot, maybe there is something more there? Just maybe.
But back to my main point: we are sexual beings. It's no suprise that you are attracted to both men and women. A lot of people are actually. So just embrace that, and be okay with it. And as for a label... I woudn't worry so much about it. If people ask, I just say that I am straight just because that is an easy answer. But you can do whatever you are comfortable with.
Does this help?

 

[hairycub29]

I'm new here and not sure where to place this topic, but figured this would be the perfect place to ask this type of question.

I like straight porn, and really like girls. I've been watching straight porn for a while, But I found myself watching and getting off to gay porn more, I seem to enjoy it more. I love to see guy's bodies. I really can't picture myself being gay, I really can't see myself having a relationship with another guy. I've always found myself having feelings for girls, and I want to start a family when I get older.

Is this a phase, is it normal, or what? I would really appreciate anyone's help.

hey mate, let ya freak flag fly. whatever peels ya bananna i say!!!!

there is nothing to question or need for you to. you like what you like. infact im gay and i prefer str8 porn about 80% of the time, it used to bother me but then ahhhh screw it thought..... thankgod for bisexual guys and their bisexual porn YAY

 

[backpacker]

Don't get too hung up on labels. It could be a phase or the start of a realization. Don't try to fight your feelings. Just go with the flow and see where it leads you.

 

[Raven03]

Sounds like you maybe bisexual.

Also it is possible to have a family with a guy.

 

[rareboy]

Confused and possibly in denial?

It is possible to enjoy beef and still be a strict vagitarian but it is equally possible that you may be gay as a circus. You might have feelings for girls and you might think of them as a means of procreation but until you have experienced wild hot monkey sex with guys, how will you know which direction your prick really points?

What you absolutely do not want to do is marry some poor girl with the question unresolved and then four or fourteen years later, dump her because you have found your real passion in some young catamite.

However, as I've noted before, being gay is about more than where you put your cock; it is more about who you commit your heart and soul to.

 

[yuengling]

First off I look at both and my explanation has always been gay porn is better.(wait read on)
So much of the straight porn is old men doing young hot girls and that bothers the hell out of me, I can't stand to watch a hot cheerleader get screwed by some fat old man. Now when it comes to gay porn all you need to type in is twink and boom your able to watch two 18-25 year olds having sex. Yes their guys but their happy acting and you could actually see how their both attracted to each other.
I'm stil not sure what my sexuality is but I do like straight porn when its a boy and a girl who are 18-25. But so much of straigh porn is this guy who looks like he is the night manager of a wafflehouse its almost as if he is raping her so I never could enjoy it.
Just my opinion and it may be because I am gay. Your probably better off just avoiding porn altogether and have real sex if any.

What is everyone else's opinion I am not against porn but do you think it is good for people in the long run?

 

[Danugh]

You are pretty gay.

A straight man cannot be turned on watching 2 men go at it like rabbits in a corn field.


Like a number line gay comes in many levels. You are a -7 level gay, a voyeuristic kind of gay. You look but you don't touch.

I know a straight gay who loves seeing guys dicks, his sole purpose for going to ball games is to see dicks at the urinal/ trough. But he will never ever get physical with another man. He is just curious about what other guys dicks look like.

He considered joining the army just so he could shower with all those hot guys in basic training.

 

[redheadbubblebutt]

For all of those people that don't think bisexuality exists, that people are either straight or gay, I'd like to present the bonobo.

Bonobos have sex with members of both sexes.

Is someone going to tell me that the male bonobos are in actuality gay and that sex with females is just a cover?

Bonobos are more closely related to humans than they are to gorillas.

If bonobos can be bisexual then why can't humans?

(For those of you that aren't familiar with bonobos, they're often confused with chimpanzees.)

And before you start arguing against the existence of bisexuality you should realize that the presence of bisexuality is one of the strongest arguments against any idea that homosexuality isn't natural or that it's a choice.

In his book Sperm Wars, Robin Baker theorizes that homosexuality is the result of genes from a mother and father with bisexual genes. That's how you can account for the existence of exclusive homosexuals even though men that are exclusive to men cannot reproduce.

So the next time you see some dipshit like Dobson on Larry King Live arguing that homosexuality isn't natural because homosexuals can't reproduce so how can it be natural if it can't be passed on...blah blah blah...you have a scientific argument against it. (I think the best argument for it being natural though is "I enjoy sucking dick and getting my ass fucked. I crave it.")

Ignorance and dogma in the straight and gay community piss me off.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

For the time being you are 'exploring'. And that word is your label for now and for better and worse.

If you want to make it right, open your mind and drop any prejudice. Go, where you feel like going and try the things out.

At some point of time, you'll establish a pattern of behavior that will be determining your sexual orientation.

It will be 'what you do' and not 'what you say and feel'.

SC

 

[Ryuukie]

Maybe you feel that gay sex is extreme sex. Maybe you see it as being the height of animal-like passion.

 

[LarsVenice]

I'm not sure that porn is a good enough indicator - it's hard to know exactly what it means. How do you feel when you touch another guy? You should experiment to find out. Try hugging another man fully clothed and see whether you get aroused. If the touch of a man gets you turned on, then you are probably bi, but if it is only the sight, then that is another matter. Do you have any fantasies about being intimate with men? Do you have erotic dreams involving men? If not, then you are probably straight, and you might find a woman who also enjoys gay porn.

 

[nickscotti]

.......yes

 

[m59583]

Oh, this post is hilarious!

Straight man from Waffle House, and then two gay guys going at it in a cornfield! Got me in stitches!! I have one question: who has the syrup?

Okay, to be serious for a moment........

If you've just "recently" been attracted to gay porn, you are probably finding a new avenue for your sexuality to travel down. You might be bisexual, but you could just as easily end up in a gay relationship.

Here's what you DON'T need to do. Do NOT "classify" yourself until you are comfortable and SURE of what you like. A developing sexual area is not enough for you to determine your sexuality. Sexuality is not totally based on physical attraction, nor is it based solely on emotional factors. It is when you combine both physical and emotional attraction that you truly have love in your eyes.

Find your category below, and see if you think you MIGHT fit this. I like to use this model for myself, so don't write it down in blood. It's not guaranteed or backed by anyone.

If you like girls physically and they evoke emotions in you---------you're straight.
If you like guys physically and they evoke emotions in you--------you're gay.
If you like girls physically but they don't evoke emotions-------possibly bisexual.
If you like guys physically but they don't evoke emotions------possibly bisexual.
If you don't like girls physically but they evoke emotions in you-----possibly gay.
If you don't like guys physically, but they evoke emotions in you---possibly straight.
If you like BOTH guys and girls physically and emotionally---definitely bisexual.

VERY RARE CATEGORIES:
If you don't like girls physically or emotionally---------probably gay (or antisocial personality---possibly even asexual).
If you don't like guys physically or emotionally--------probably str8 (or antisocial personality---possibly even asexual).
If you don't like girls OR guys physically or emotionally-------either antisocial, depressed, not sexually developed (i.e young,) or asexual.

These are very loosely defined, and still don't qualify you for any particular relationship. Why? The decision to be made can only be made by one factor-----you.