Am I Normal, Or Not?

[The_Reaper]

Don't know whether this should have gone in health & well-being, or what not, but I'm going to put it here and see what happens.

I've always been a little oversexed, not entirely sure why, but it's a fact about myself that I've come to accept. For example, when meeting someone, I do tend to immediately determine whether or not I find them attractive. If I do, then I tend to wonder what they look like naked. And of course, from there, the occasional glance at the crotch bulge and on wards and so forth.

From there, I tend to wonder a bit more. If they're having sex, do they masturbate on a daily basis, etc, etc, etc, etc.

This is something I do pretty much with everyone; and I have even noticed that since I've been away from the boyfriend for awhile, even someone I don't have any attraction to I'll 'scan' the bulge and the same questions percolate in my head as well.

It's gotten me in trouble, as sometimes with some people, I do tend to get a bit aggressive...I have been known, if the person is gay at least, to inquire about cock size and masturbation habits...And one or two straight guys have also seen this less than admirable side of me.

I just get an idea in my head, and I run with it...I basically lock my jaw and can't move on until my curiosity has been sated.

So, is this normal? Or is it just me?

 

[dereperez]

I wouldn't say it's abnormal; we all have sexual desires that need to be sated. Some of us are more aggressive than others. Is what you've described generally socially acceptable? No, not really lol.

Could use some restraint there, buddy. Maybe drain the ammo from your gun before you head outside?

 

[Willie Boy]

.....It's gotten me in trouble, as sometimes with some people, I do tend to get a bit aggressive.....

...I basically lock my jaw and can't move on until my curiosity has been sated....

So, is this normal? Or is it just me?

If its really as bad as you say it could get you into serious trouble. You need to learn how to keep it under control and not let it control you. If you don't you'll be looking at sexual assault charges in the near future. If necessary talk to a therapist.

 

[The_Reaper]

I do want to clarify a little, if not add on a little bit, I wouldn't say out of the blue grab someone's crotch...

It's more so my thoughts almost always go towards sex. I would say I'm exclusively homosexual, no desire for women at all, but every now and then this same sort of process happens with women. I'm pretty disgusted by the idea/thought of it, nothing against women but it's not for me, yet the thought does cross my mind. There's few cases where I would actively do something, like ask someone to show me their cock or what have you, but the thoughts do go in my mind.

To a degree, the best way to describe it perhaps is that I'm constantly developing crushes on people...Like the Purolator guy who comes into our office and so forth. I'm in a happy relationship, I love my boyfriend dearly, yet these thoughts continue to creep up on me like lion in the Serengeti...And whether I want to or not, these thoughts just keep creeping in on a guy.

Don't know if that adds any context or not.

 

[ElmosToe]

If necessary talk to a therapist.

Just not a sex therapist

 

[Willie Boy]

Just not a sex therapist

IS there a problem with sex therapists?

 

[topspin66]

Respectfully I would say its normal to think sexually of others and stare at crotches. But I don't think its the norm to develop crushes on random people and its definitely not normal or polite to inquire about someone's cock size or wankiness.

 

[Scealle]

I don't think it's abnormal and probably actually quite common among guys. I don't always think about guys crotches or bulges all the time. But there are days I think about them all day long lol.

 

[Ryuukie]

What you're curious about is normal IMHO. But you need to practice some restraint.