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Am I Over-thinking this??

we dont have to say it and believe me. I don't get any pleasure out of being right. on the contrary. it makes me kinda sad.

What I am happy about is that you can clearly see that this guy is a loser. He played with you and tossed you aside. dont have ANY further contact with him. NONE. if he texts or calls don't reply or answer. He's had more than enough chances. Give him a taste of his own medicine. in fact, I'd delete his info and block him. that way you wont be tempted to give in and "try one more time."

Sorry that it turned out this way. Please don't think that all older guys are like him. They aren't. Some of us are very nice and would love to have a meaningful relationship. You just ran into a jerk. Take some time. Get over this idiot and then get out there and find someone that will truly care for and love you.

Steven.
 
TJx123 said:
I know I know...you can all say "I told you so"
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This is not a "oh you guys were right and I was wrong" matter. I think I'm right when I say that nobody here wants to be the one who tells the bad news, as somebody else said already this makes me kinda sad too. However, there is a bright side and the best part of all this is that you figured it out yourself, that's much more important than any thing we said.

now move on, better guys will eventually come.

:wave:
 
Guys speak a lot clearer with what they do than what they say. Listen to what they do first.

Took me a few years to figure that one out.
 
He's around his 40's and acting like this? Well, it's good to know that you're going to move on from this situation. It happened to me before...and I'm sure a lot of people. At a time like this, hold your head up high and take it as an experience.
 
^I agree, the fact that he's in his 40s and acting like an 18 year old speaks volumes...
 
Agreed. He really should've been straightforward to begin with! ...that'd prevent a lot of wasted time and effort on BOTH your parts.

I would hit the DELETE key on his contact info.
 
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