am I seriously the only one? -_-

[The Fly]

I don't cheat and wouldn't put up with it from a partner/spouse EVER, but that's just me. I would not be in an "open relationship" for the same reason, to me it seems so phony. But if it works for someone else, that's their business not mine.
This stuff about "I asked several times if I could see another guy", seriously?...several times? If I was asked that question once, I'd say sure, but when you showed up the next morning I'd be a gone. I'd be willing to bet your relationship is nowhere near as strong as you think.

 

[bi-4u2]

It's NEVER ok, i dont see a reason why it would ever be ok, unless the cheating partner was being forced to be in said partnership.

 

[Scealle]

I have a gay friend. Her brother came out before her. Then a few years ago both her parents came out. Weirdest situation I've ever seen. Dad, mom, son, and daughter were all gay.

That is so odd. Makes me wonders about the gay genes theory. My sis is lesb and my bro has bi tendencies. Sometimes I wonder if my father is a closet case because I think he had some really close single guy friends lol! Oh well lol.

 

[refujiunderground]

If it makes you feel better, I have nothing against you married guys. I used to, but back then I was young and dumb.

I have a gay friend. Her brother came out before her. Then a few years ago both her parents came out. Weirdest situation I've ever seen. Dad, mom, son, and daughter were all gay.

Anyway, the dad and mom both decided to stay married on paper and be free to date other people. I actually danced with the dad in a gay bar once. At the time, the mom was seeing this other woman...

The point is you can always recover from your mistake.

this has to be bullshit. i swear you got a lot of funny ass stories that only happens to you.

 

[72-Jay]

I'm someone who would never cheat...and I'd expect the same in return
I also wouldn't want to be the one someone was cheating with

 

[refujiunderground]

Pretty simple minded if you think your experience is all there is to the world.

naw, dude. you're not getting me.

you stay having something happen to you or experiencing shit that happens to nobody else in the world. only animalius. i'm NOT doubting your stories but sometimes, i wonder if you just make up shit to be entertaining like this. you always have a crazy story to tell. nobody's life is THAT entertaining.

you need to write down all your experiences with someone else who's interested in making a tv show who also has crazy experiences themselves. i would be happy to work with you where we can throw all our crazy experiences in life that we or other people around us have experienced and make a drama comedy show out of it. let me know if you're down for the idea though. i've have a couple of crazy ass stories that i've experienced myself or know other people that went through them that would be fucking hilarious to watch.

 

[EuroSoccer]

naw, dude. you're not getting me.

you stay having something happen to you or experiencing shit that happens to nobody else in the world. only animalius.

Oh man, I can't stop laughing........

Anyway, Animalius you are too entertaining, don't stop posting mate

 

[MorrisseyX]

It's a pretty weak ass relationship if one or more partners is still looking elsewhere to get their needs met.

I disagree with this thought process, studies have shown that gay male couples have actually got it right. The NY Times published an article about this that gay men understand there is a huge difference between LOVE & SEX. Some people especially women confuse the two.

Some people want sexual variety and they get bored having sex with the same person over and over again and again. And that's part of the reason people cheat they want to have sex with someone new.

The idea of monogamy is a joke, because men especially are not wired for that gay or straight. I would not expect monogamy from my partner if I had one and neither him from me.

 

[Durango95]

I was such a slut for most of my life. I was a sex addict. I screwed over a lot of really great guys, both literally and figuratively. I ruined a lot of friendships. I had a horrible reputation.

When I finally found THE GUY. He was awesome. I can truly say I was head over heels in love with him, both literally and figuratively. I thought I was set for life. I never thought of relationships in those terms before. We were together for 4 years. He died of cancer two years ago.

No matter how you say it: 1.) for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap, 2.)what goes around comes around, 3.) the chickens come home to roost, 4.) karma, 5.) poetic justice....it does come to pass.

So all the guys that were screwed over...there is cold comfort.

 

[eastofeden]

i disagree with this thought process, studies have shown that gay male couples have actually got it right. The ny times published an article about this that gay men understand there is a huge difference between love & sex. some people especially women confuse the two.

Some people want sexual variety and they get bored having sex with the same person over and over again and again. And that's part of the reason people cheat they want to have sex with someone new.

The idea of monogamy is a joke, because men especially are not wired for that gay or straight. I would not expect monogamy from my partner if i had one and neither him from me.

quoted for truth!