Am I shallow?

[Appleman34]

I met an amazing guy who I really like and really get along with. However, I'm not that sexually attracted to him. He's very cute, has pretty eyes, has the best smile ever.... but he's also very skinny. He's not too skinny (hes not unhealthy or anything); he has "skinny guy muscles". If you're into the whole "twink" thing, you'd love him, but I unfortunately am not. I love thick, meaty guys. And it's even worse that he has literally no ass.

Idk.... does this sound shallow? Silly? He's a great guy and has all the qualities I look for, but I feel that I'll be disappointed in the bedroom, if we ever get to that point.

 

[HunterM]

It means there is a certain type you're sexually attracted to. It means you have preferences on what turns you on.

Date your type.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

I met an amazing guy who I really like and really get along with. However, I'm not that sexually attracted to him. He's very cute, has pretty eyes, has the best smile ever.... but he's also very skinny. He's not too skinny (hes not unhealthy or anything); he has "skinny guy muscles". If you're into the whole "twink" thing, you'd love him, but I unfortunately am not. I love thick, meaty guys. And it's even worse that he has literally no ass.

Idk.... does this sound shallow? Silly? He's a great guy and has all the qualities I look for, but I feel that I'll be disappointed in the bedroom, if we ever get to that point.

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[G-Lexington]

I guess I'm fortunate in that I'm sexually attracted to personalities rather than specific body types. But I've learned I'm in the distinct minority there. If you gave him a chance to see if there was chemisrty there, and there wasn't, I'd say you gave it a fair shake. That's all really you can do.

Lex

 

[Appleman34]

I guess I'm fortunate in that I'm sexually attracted to personalities rather than specific body types. But I've learned I'm in the distinct minority there. If you gave him a chance to see if there was chemisrty there, and there wasn't, I'd say you gave it a fair shake. That's all really you can do.

Lex

Yeah, I've noticed that the more we connect, the more I'm attracted him. I think he's slowly curving my taste in men.

 

[G-Lexington]

Well, if you're getting more attracted to him, then by all means, keep seeing him. You might find out that you love his all-but-non-existent ass more than any large one you've ever had.

Lex

 

[Spiff]

Attraction (either physical or personality) can't be forced. But when considering a relationship, you should not focus only on physical attraction; it's only part of the equation. Get to know him more, it seems to me there is room for a change of heart here.

 

[altlover85]

Idk.... does this sound shallow? Silly? He's a great guy and has all the qualities I look for, but I feel that I'll be disappointed in the bedroom, if we ever get to that point.

See what happens when you get into the bedroom, if you get to that point. If it's bad, you can always end things then, but why not at least give it a try?

 

[CowboyBob]

Give him a chance. He may become your type. You'll know soon enough if it's not a connection.

 

[Beachguyj]

Sex is only a small part of a relationship. If he's a nice guy and you guys get along together try it and see how it goes, maybe you will be better off as friends, maybe you will want him, but he won't want you in the end. (no pun intended....yes it is)

 

[voyager1994]

You have a preference, that's all it is.