Am I that unattractive?

[screwnutty]

Hmmmm....good question.

I don't know what to say other then that maybe you should look for a guy who will love you for you. Not what he wants to turn you into. There are guys out there that image doesn't matter to them. Personality and the ability to make them laugh is what counts. This guy wasn't your guy. Take some time, make peace with yourself and try again. That's why we fall down in life, to learn to get up and deal with our problems and move on.

Good luck to you.

 

[JOHN B]

There is a type out there for everyone. Just because one person doesn't find you "his type" that doesn't mean someone else won't. You have no pics up but i'm sure you are fine.....to someone.. Don't give up, don't base your self esteem on what someone ELSE thinks of you.

 

[shea]

I think you are well rid of that extremely
shallow person. I am sorry that had to
happen to you but there are aholes
everywhere.
I hope you have better luck next time.
shea

 

[IceFier]

Who says he's shallow? He tried to date the guy, but couldn't keep his "interest" up. He could have just stayed with the guy and cheated on him to get his fix of muscle.

 

[Rali_hates_Mondays]

I find your ex's behaviour really odd. Did this vindictiveness just come out of nowhere?

I understand what your friend said about muscular guys but sexual attraction is not as black and white as he says it is. Just continue being you- don't go to the gym for the wrong reasons. Date other guys and you will soon forget about your douchebag ex

 

[nick2046]

It's an age thing; perhaps he's just immature & couldn't see the real you but thought to give it a try anyway.

It has nth to do with your nationality or body type; he just needed an excuse, any excuse. There is no pretty breakups. Give yourself 6 mths & I'm sure you'd find a better man.

Yes, i still believe in love among gay ppl; my bf has been with me for >7 yrs.

 

[kcboi]

"There is no such thing as gay love isn't it?" I so disagree with that statement mot2345. My boyfriend and I are very much in love above and beyond the sexual part. I'm just very lucky I guess...

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>There is no such thing as gay love isn't it?

Expect a lot of grief from people on this one. No such thing as gay love? Why do gay couples stay together through middle-age, then? Viagra?

This guy decided he wanted a muscular guy rather than you. That's his call. Completely and totally HIS call. It says absolutely nothing about anybody else. I know muscular guys who prefer muscular gays. I know some who prefer skinny ones, and at least one who is partnered with a rather fat guy.

Any time - ANY SINGLE TIME - somebody gives you a sentence like "this group of people is like this", it's called a stereotype. And yes, there are going to be people who fit it. But there are also going to be people who don't. The only thing you can say with any degree of certainity about muscular guys is that they're guys, and that they have muscles. That's it. End of story. Anything else is going to come down to the individual.

What about you? Accept that the guy would rather have something besides you, and go find yourself another one. Keep your options open. You may fall for another skinny guy, or even a fat guy. You never know.

Lex

 

[sunoftheskye]

I understand you're upset your boyfriend dumped you, but the fact that he could get rid of you so quickly over something so superficial, is telling about the type of person he is. Why would you want to be with someone like that? Unless you, yourself were only interested in his body.

Who says he's shallow? He tried to date the guy, but couldn't keep his "interest" up. He could have just stayed with the guy and cheated on him to get his fix of muscle.

I seriously hope this response was meant to be sarcastic.