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Hey first time posting this but I was wondering on your advice and ideas.

So I've been str8 all of my life, till about 8th grade. I started thinking about guys and it carried to college. I've had girlfriends and are really emotionally attached to girls. However there is something about dudes that attract me physically. I dont think/believe I can ever have an emotional connection with a dude. I actually enjoy having sex with girls more than guys. Yet there are fantasy in the back of my mind, yes I have fooled around with another dude before. But after it I dont feel anything, it was purely physical attraction to me.

Well I've physically attracted to women as well. I guess the emotional part never seems to come out with a guy. But when I have dated women the idea of a dude has gone out the window, somewhat faded away. Yet when Im single it comes back, its like a dam lol.

what do you guys think? :confused:
 
I think you should stick to girls


You don't believe you can be emotionally attracted to men
Sex with girls > Sex with guys
You feel nothing after messing with a guy

Seems pretty cut and dry to me
 
I'd like you to explore why you don't think of girls between girlfriends. Your orientation certainly needs to be figured out before marrying a woman. Take it from someone who did just that. This is a heterosexist society which makes emotional attachments to the same sex taboo. Since you are already breaking the taboo of sex with the same sex, I believe you are capable of breaking the other.
 
I do think of girls between girlfriends, but guys come up as well :L

im all confuuuuused
 
It sounds like you are bisexual and just prefer girls to guys. It is possible, as you say, that you aren't emotionally attracted to guys. It is possible that you enjoy girls more than guys in bed. It is also possible that you are guilty/have hangups about liking guys in whatever way it is.

Do what you do. I wouldn't say you should exclude guys you do like because it increases your bisexual quota, but then I wouldn't exclude girls because it increases your bi-curious/straight quota.
 
there are many gay and bisexual guys who say similar things: girls for love, boys just for sex. i think in many cases, they are afraid of the consequences of getting emotionally involved with guys. its easy to just fuck some guys on the side, no one ever needs to know. but what if you should fall for a guy? what if it became serious? they would have to come out, and deal with all the scary shit it entails. so subconsciously, they shut down that scary possibility by just saying: i dont feel anything with guys, its just for sex.

those people are in denial, and they should be more honest with themselves, and more courageous. im not saying youre one of them. but you do fit the pattern, and its a common thing, so think about it.
 
As long as you are single, why is this an issue? Did anyone ever tell you that you had to chose guys or girls?
 
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