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Am I the Only One Waiting For the Right Momment?

Re: Am I the Only One Waiting For the Right Mommen

still a virgin...

I'm hoping to have a bit of fun in the near future, and get good at sex before I meet anyone really special.

I don't really think of sex as something incredibly important or earth shattering. as long as it's a good safe time, it doesn't really matter to me if I wait for a serious relationship or not to do it!
 
Re: Am I the Only One Waiting For the Right Mommen

volcom1206 said:
I am not sure you understand me correctly. I have not put up any "boundaries" on sex. I am simply stating that I want to be in love with the person I am having sex with. I want to wake up next to someone that is not gonna go out and do the same thing with someone else the next night.

I have no problem with people that have sex with people they met only 5 minutes ago, it is just not what I want for myself.

My biggest belief about anything is this, whatever works, works. This works for me, and your way works for you. Why are you trying to convince me that your way is right?

PS: Waiting on sex is not unrealistic either, it is just different than what you did.
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I'm with you.:p
Don't let the whores bring you down...|
 
Re: Am I the Only One Waiting For the Right Mommen

volcom1206 said:
Not really. For me, sex is an expression of love. If the love does not exist than there is nothing to express.
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I think you're being too black and white about this. There's a lot of ground between jumping into bed with somebody after 5 minutes and waiting for true love before having sex. After dating somebody for a few weeks, you can certainly get to the point where you're starting to know this guy and have developed a special, loving connection. Can you really find true love by that point though? Maybe I'm jaded too, but the deep love I'd consider true love takes years to build. It's unrealistic to wait that long.
 
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Love is an "intense feeling of deep affection" (I actually looked that up in the dictionary). "True love" is what's written about in poetry, romance novels and cheezy movies. The difference is that one is founded the reality shared by two people while the other is not.

While the bar is too high for me personally, waiting for somebody you love and who loves you is at leas reasonable. Waiting for true love is simply setting up expectations that can never (or at best rarely) be met.
 
Re: Am I the Only One Waiting For the Right Mommen

Originally Posted by volcom1206:
Ok revising what I said not "true love" but just love.

Originally Posted by Daemon0101:
There's a difference?

Yes. And Santa Claus was really your parents. :-)
 
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