Am I truly Bi?

[roxbury123]

i think your bi. im going through the same thing and im only 18. when i was about 13, my best friend came on to me and he was very sexual about it. we didn't have sex, but ever since then i've been attracted to guys and girls. i just accepted the fact that this is how my life is now and just continued to live my life liking both sexes.

 

[kingkhan]

I would say u are bi if you are attracted to women. I know how you feel bout not being able to be with a girl. For me attractive women are intimidating to try to talk to.

 

[jackry]

I think you can be prude. You know who you are and what you like. Cool

 

[tweetymp]

Just do what comes natural. It's likely that your sexuality will be fluid for the rest of your life.

I find that my attration seems to change a bit. Some periods I lean more to wards women, others more towards men. Sometimes I'm horny as all hell, and others I'm pretty low key.

Who knows what I'll feel like in a month, a year or a decade. All I know is that if someone is attractive and willing..... Yum!

 

[mj2006a]

You are so confused dude! Hold on a bit in all relationships, do some inner search and make some decisions....we have a period of sexuality development and yours may have come a little late. I will tell you this...once you fuck with a guy, even if you love a woman, your tendency is to always remember that and know how hot it was...sex with a man is sex......really hot and animalistic.... With a woman, so much emotion is involved....make decisions or work your sexuality with a psychology before it is too late to have your mind made.

 

[Paladin]

I'm 100% gay but I think you bi guys are the real lucky ones - rejoice! and be glad you can know the best of both worlds...

I truly believe bisexuality is the most usual state of being, even if most "str8" guys can't or won't admit it.

It's something the ancient Greeks and Romans did without any labels, names or hangups!

 

[kingkhan]

I'm 100% gay but I think you bi guys are the real lucky ones - rejoice! and be glad you can know the best of both worlds...

I truly believe bisexuality is the most usual state of being, even if most "str8" guys can't or won't admit it.

It's something the ancient Greeks and Romans did without any labels, names or hangups!

That's refreshing to hear I usually get the vibe from gay guys that they don't like bi guys.

 

[Caaake]

I'm a straight girl and im looking for a bi guy haha! And i know a lot of us who are out there... a lot but i always end up meeting the homophobic jock types. Where are all the bi men?

 

[UnderBiCover]

That's refreshing to hear I usually get the vibe from gay guys that they don't like bi guys.

unfortunately verbal bi-bashing seems to be somewhat common in the gay community - some presume if you're bi that you're really gay & the bi thing is just some kind of disguise - after a while it just becomes white noise static because it's clear these people truly don't understand bisexuality - they seem to want to neatly organize the world & they can't find a handy slot for you - as soon as I hear some guy decide in 4 seconds I'm really gay because I say I'm bi then I just tune him out because he's proven he's narrow minded & ill informed & quick to leap to conclusions

I've found over the years that as much as some gay guys condemn bisexual men, it never stops them from wanting to get into bed with bi guys, particularly if the bi guy is very "straight" acting &/or married - a few years back I hooked up with a guy who knew I was married & bi - this guy was really into me sexually but when we were done he had to get up on his little soapbox & rant about me being bi, how I was really gay blah blah blah - I just laughed - 10 minutes earlier he was more than happy to suck my married bi cock but then when he was done he realized he had a problem - with himself

of course, a lot of gay guys are 100% totally accepting of bi guys, but they're rarely the ones making all kind of noise

 

[kingkhan]

Yeah it can be difficult becuase, I am sure there are gay guys who believed they were bi but, for gay guys who never had an interest in women I guess they can't relate so some believe that bi guys are just gay.

 

[Maccabee]

I could have written the same text as you Doctor106. Although I am somewhat older than you, I'm still very much doubting.

First, for some time I thought I was gay. But at that point I did not have any experiences with boys. Girls were not very attractive to me. I just found them strange and annoying.

At some point I started watching gay porn and I found it pretty arousing. A year ago I decided that I just needed some experiences with boys and I came out as bi. Kissing boys is something I like, but the sex has not been ideal. I've never been completely horny and I have trouble maintaining an erection (although I do get one). This has made me very doubtful. Do I really like boys or is it just a phase and am I straight?

When I see a pretty girl, sometimes I do feel something in my stomach. They don't really arouse me (but perhaps I'm just mentally blocking that). Although I might like girls, I don't think they're as interesting as some guys...
I also don't really like girls in general, but the boys I like are always twink-like boys of 19-21.

So.. for me, it's still very unclear.

 

[falconfan]

Dude you're bi and that's great

There are plenty of gay people in this world, plenty of straight people, and plenty of bi people. Sadly a lot of people, both gay and straight, for reasons beyond my comprehension get fixated on this idea that bisexuality is impossible. That however is just silly. No one knows better than you who you are attracted to. Dude like girls. Like boys. And have fun

 

[fireside]

I know who I am. To the point of my entire life i never question my sexuality or anything. It wasn't until last year when i had my first homosexual experience, and my first sexual encounter that where things happened. And over the course of the year i kept having encounters, alll with guys. ANd i found i did have an attraction to guys, and during the year dated.

But this is the dilemma, i am still incredibly attracted to women. It hasn't changed, it hasnt gone away, its all very well the same. I have some gay friends who are convinced I'm gay and are basically waiting for me to jsut admit it. But I know who I am, i dont think im gay. I know im not straight either.

ANother thing is i havent been with a girl in any way. I don't know a guy is easier tot alk to than a girl is. Maybe its the natural male bonding, idk.

I mean i am dating a guy right now for a bout 2 months. I really like him and he me. But im not seeing it as a homosecual relationship. In my mind hes jsut someone i really like and care for who just happens to be a guy.But i believe im Bi, while some believe otherwise, what do you guys think?

you are who you say you are.

It has been said before that "no one outside of your body can live your life for you", so take that mantra with you wherever it is you feel it necessary. Here's an opportunity for it to shine through and tell you the answer you seek.