Am I wrong to have a size complex?

[gayjohnd]

ok, I think I have a small dick when it's flacid and it can cause me problems when in communal showers after swimming and when changing.

Tonight I just happened to see a post about dick size in another forum and it looked like most people there have a flacid dick between 3"-5".
I measured mine and it was about 3.5". yeah, ok I measured it before but so long ago I can't remember what size it was then.

It got me thinking that maybe I'm not as small as I think I am.
I honestly didn't hope this would turn into a "my size is" with photos thread but just some reassurance that I'm wrong to think my flacid dick is too small. Though be honest and say it is if you think it is.

Tbh, I've started to wonder what the hang up with flacid size is when if size really matters, and I don't think it does, then surely the size matters when it's hard.

 

[DiligentAvocado]

I spent a lot of time being self conscious about my flaccid (and erect) length, eventually I realised even if it were smaller than average that most people (especially guys) understand that some people are 'growers' while others are 'showers'. Yours happens to be within a perfectly average range, not to mention flaccid length isn't even a static thing, temperature and a lot of other variables can effect it too, there's a reason in (atleast American) media there's been quite a few jokes about guys saying 'I just got out of the pool' or something variation when someone inadvertently sees them naked, it's a very common insecurity.

Mine is right about the same length at 3.5" and I've had the same concern, something that helped me is to just see it in a mirror, as that would show the perspective other people see and it definitely looks a lot bigger and proportional compared to simply looking down.

 

[peeonme]

3.5 is not small. However, we can have a complex about any part of us that we don't like. I am 5'7" tall, it bothers others more than me because I don't measure my height against everyone.

No matter how often you worry about it, it won't change anything. I have been there, a lot of guys have. Accept yourself as you are.

 

[gayvga]

Yes, you are wrong to have a size complex.
It´s something you give importance but you just need to deal with it and you will see it doesn´t matter at all.
Don´t waste your time suffering with a thing it is absolutely common. Persons are different and it´s absolutely natural. You are perfect exactly how you are.

 

[cocksucker4use]

Porn is the breeder of penile dysmorphia. Some guys who are 5" flaccid stay there when erect. Google the stats for the average man, and at 3.5, you are in the ball park around 3.6.

 

[flamingo]

I used to worry about my dick size when I was in school. In the locker room or showers, other boys would mock my "shortcomings". But I guess it is just a self imposed insecurity. I realize that I am not as out of the norm as I thought. But, that doesn't mean I can't have a little "penis envy" when I see a well-hung stud. That too, is normal.