An interesting Grindr discussion

[voltronforce]

I have never had an interesting Grindr discussion nor do I think that is possible under the laws of physics.

 

[Level27]

I have never had an interesting Grindr discussion nor do I think that is possible under the laws of physics.

I'm sorry, love. I would like to think that my discussion here is quite "interesting". A grindr head stating that he'll consciously pass a hot guy off as a hot guy himself is rather unique. I'm sure even you can't contest that.

It screams “I’ll fuck you as a charity case” to me.

I think I’d be insulted if he wanted to hook up with me. It’s like…hey you’re ugly and you look like you’re incapable of getting any dick, so let me do you a favor.

To each their own though.

And, you say this as a hot Asian guy with nice abs and thickly round breast muscles?

(Assuming that's you in your profile avatar)

 

[Level27]

He even has his own medal.


https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61DH2LWxJcL._AC_UL1050_.jpg

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jude_...920s.-,Patronage,patron saint of lost causes".

I suppose I don't have anything more clever and witty to say except: lol.

 

[Kienny]

And, you say this as a hot Asian guy with nice abs and thickly round breast muscles?

(Assuming that's you in your profile avatar)

I say this as an Asian guy living in a very white-centric DC haha. Everyone's got their insecurities for one reason or another.

 

[Zeno Lorea]

I've never touched Grindr. From what I've heard, the guy's photos may not even be of him and/or be recent. I certainly wouldn't respond.

I only use Grindr to hook up with guys I recognize from the real world (you fuck someone in the bath house a dozen times and then see him on Grindr? Green light) or guys who are within 100 meters or so from me so that I can see them in real life before we go any further.

 

[Level27]

I say this as an Asian guy living in a very white-centric DC haha. Everyone's got their insecurities for one reason or another.

Babe, you should come to Los Angeles. It isn't white-centric here. It is somewhat, but there is a nice prominent scene for Blacks and Asians; a mix of Blacks and Asians together.

(Please note: this is just me trying to get lucky with a hot fellow Azn.)

I only use Grindr to hook up with guys I recognize from the real world (you fuck someone in the bath house a dozen times and then see him on Grindr? Green light) or guys who are within 100 meters or so from me so that I can see them in real life before we go any further.

From all I care, the grindr head I speak of was just a little under a mile away; not only was he in my town, he was only just a handful of neighborhoods away.

I assume he was very genuine; and that his profile picture is of him.

For all you care, you could have fallen into his trap: it's possible his grindr profile was a social experiment of who would turn away a sexy grindr profile when it has an 'awkward' message as his. He could have really been hot in real life, and you fell prey to his genuine message.

Just a thought.

 

[hangten]

He is an ABSOLUTE DOUCHEBAG…for those who are looking for love/marriage, their soulmates on Grindr

For the rest of us on Grindr, a fuck is a fuck…supply & demand. It all depends on one’s perspective on the use of Grindr. Maybe he has a fetish (for his own ego); maybe he is a fetish for someone else (to satisfy an urge for the night or day). He is supplying a service. If there is a demand for his service, then we have a match made-in-heaven for a fuck session

You can have fun in sex without having to fall in love…meet each other’s friends & family (although that would be nice. But it’s not why most people are on Grindr). Let’s face it, Grindr is a hookup app. It’s great for no strings attached hookups. It is not a romance app.

 

[USEDCAR]

I have never had an interesting Grindr discussion nor do I think that is possible under the laws of physics.

Same here but i don't meet the grindr requirements. I am overweight,Black and not the hottest.

 

[Peloso]

I much prefer the old days of picking up guys in adult bookstores. You know what you're getting and there are no filters.

 

[GayCook]

I would fit at least 2 of his categories but I wouldn't let him anywhere near me. I'm not after a charity fuck. If I find a man who likes me for me then great, if not I'll just have to accept that.

 

[Alistair]

I much prefer the old days of picking up guys in adult bookstores. You know what you're getting and there are no filters.

I thought I’d pick up a better class of guy at the library but so far it hasn’t been working.

 

[Peloso]

I thought I’d pick up a better class of guy at the library but so far it hasn’t been working.

In theory the library should be a great pick-up place but I don't think I've ever found any decent prospects there.

I have a strange history of hooking up at laundromats. It happened twice. Almost three times but I passed at the last minute.

You know that thing where you're driving and you see the hottest guy you've ever seen in another car? I hooked up that way once. He was at a u-turn jughandle as I passed him. Really cute Latino guy. I was looking in my rearview and saw him make an illegal left turn off the jughandle in order to follow me. At first I wasn't sure. It was a sort of balmy spring day so at the first light I took off my jacket and stretched and he did the same. I was taking the back way home which meant going through a maze of tiny streets and he followed all the way. I turned off at a 7-11 because I didn't want to just lead him to my house without knowing anything about him. He kept on going. Damn! I thought, but as I pulled back onto the road, he reappeared. I thought fuck it and just drove home.

His name was Ray. As soon as we got in my house he said he was allergic to cats but was still rubbing his crotch, so we just jerked other. Afterwards he had cat hair all over his big meaty legs so he asked if he could take a quick shower. I said I'd join him.

Not exactly the best sex ever, but the absurd spontaneity was hotter than anything grindr could have offered.

 

[Kahaih]

I thought I’d pick up a better class of guy at the library but so far it hasn’t been working.

I've never heard of bookworm chasers.

How does the flirting go? Is there some sort of exaggerated hunchback body language?

 

[Peloso]

I've never heard of bookworm chasers.

How does the flirting go? Is there some sort of exaggerated hunchback body language?

You hang out by the Genet section and pinch your nipples.

 

[Level27]

M'kay. So, more food for thought:
This guy represents the opposite of the 'douche' being discussed: he doesn't 'give himself to charity'; the contactor must "wow" him.
I understand that many you all feel that the eccentric Grindr head that I describe is a douche. On the other hand, many people would also consider the guy in this link a douche. These two guys (guy in the link and the eccentric guy being discussed) are at opposite ends of the spectrum.
What's one thing both guys can modify in order to not be a douche, or at least lessen the severity of it?

 

[Peloso]

At least the guy in the link is being upfront about what kind of person he is. People can just roll their eyes and move on. There's already enough game playing on those apps.

 

[jaysizzles]

I've never gone on Grindr so it was kind of fun to scroll through that site and see some of those guys hook-up requirements, and read some of the snarky comments. The commenters are just as judgmental as the guys they're dogging. I imagine though that most of those guys looking for a hook-up are just tired of having to deal with people they know they'll reject anyway, so why waste everyone's time. And sure, there are kinder ways of rejecting guys, but like Peloso said...you know what kind of person he is.

 

[Level27]

I've never gone on Grindr so it was kind of fun to scroll through that site and see some of those guys hook-up requirements, and read some of the snarky comments. The commenters are just as judgmental as the guys they're dogging. I imagine though that most of those guys looking for a hook-up are just tired of having to deal with people they know they'll reject anyway, so why waste everyone's time. And sure, there are kinder ways of rejecting guys, but like Peloso said...you know what kind of person he is.

Ah, but see, my point is that the eccentric guy might be going out of his way to accept rejected guys, and then he's considered a douche all the same. The way I see it, eccentric guy can't win: if he rejects guys, he's a douche for being some uncouth arrogant brute. If he accepts rejected guys, he's a douche for being self-serving and egoistic. So then, as I was asking, what should he do (Or, rather, my original wording was, "what was one thing he could modify") to not be a douche?

 

[cabinfever]

Ah, but see, my point is that the eccentric guy might be going out of his way to accept rejected guys, and then he's considered a douche all the same. The way I see it, eccentric guy can't win: if he rejects guys, he's a douche for being some uncouth arrogant brute. If he accepts rejected guys, he's a douche for being self-serving and egoistic. So then, as I was asking, what should he do (Or, rather, my original wording was, "what was one thing he could modify") to not be a douche?

The thing is whoever judges him for better or worse are revealing who they are in the comments - ALWAYS - and saying nothing about him that is relevant to anything.

 

[GayCook]

I personally feel it comes across as douchey to go out of your way to advertise you accept guys that are often rejected. You could just not say that as a pretense and just talk normally to guys you feel are often rejected on the app. As one of those guys that doesn't do well on grindr I appreciate a guy that is accepting of someone like me but I would feel weird knowing he was only talking to me because I look as if I get rejected a lot.