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An Unusual relationship request

He is unwilling, at this point, to admit that he is gay. He needs to take this very slowly - like inching your way into cold water.

If you question his motives or try to aggressively do anything, i think that you will cause him to back away.

He's experimenting - he feels safe with you.

I think that doing what you are doing may not be satisfying to you, but it does give him safetly. he can experiment incrementally. Maybe he'll go farther - maybe he'll decide that it isn't what he wants. But right now, he can still call himself straight.

There was a thread here a couple of years ago from a guy in Iowa who had a friend spend the night at his place for months. I don't know whatever happened with that relationship.

I would say - as long as you aren't secrectly pining for him and that this isn't excruciating for you, just keep allowing him the safetly you have provided.
 
ok..I wouldn't be comfortable laying naked with my straight male friend or gay male friend in that case. Theres something more going on in his head and your the vehicle to explore it with. I've ran into guys like this before either they are curious or confused. However you want to put it. My friend "P" had met this guy "J" during a tennis tournement. "P" is very flamboyant and open about his sexuality."J" was straight and said he liked hanging with cool people he didn't mind that "p" was gay at all and they decided to become tennis buddies which eventually lead to a closer friendship. Then "P" asked me if I thought "J" was gay because "J" asked him some very personal questions about gay sex. Long Long story short "J" was super closeted and told "P" that he'd had sex with a guy in LA and is falling in love with him.

Proceed with caution.
 
Maybe he isn't completely straight.

Maybe he enjoys the affection of a man, but doesn't enjoy gay sex.

I've heard stories of men who are like that with women, so I don't see how it's impossible the other way around.
 
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