Anal Sex (First Time)

[cpugh2005]

I have met this guy and we get on really well and have been talking about trying anal, Neither of us have tried it before so I thought before we did I would buy a Dildo and see how it goes.

Now I don't wanna be to graphic but there is always something on the Dildo when i bring it out and I am getting really self concious about it and am starting to worry about doing anal now is it just me? I was thinking maybe it takes a while to get used to it? I really don't know sorry to sound so stupid but I didn't know who else to ask about this sort of issue.

Thanks guys.

 

[SantaCBear]

Drugstore enema... Altho some people say that isnt good for you.

If you get into a long term relationship getting do-do on your dipstick will happen.

 

[cpugh2005]

getting do-do on your dipstick

Loved that quote, And thanks

 

[SantaCBear]

no problem... btw -- use plenty of lube and maybe even a small butt plug before you get it on.

 

[ttp0006]

I would recommend using the pump from the enema kit to flush warm water into yourself. That would be more gentle than the chemicals from the enema solution.

 

[JayHew]

It happens, it is a fact of life every now and again. Accept it and have things prepared for a nice tidy up immediately afterwards, then can come the cuddling.

 

[TheObserver]

Part or all of the preparation process can even make for some really hot foreplay. Be creative. Have fun with it all!

 

[Shepherd 2]

Practice good hygiene.
Practice safe sex, use a good condom.
Toys are not necessary, but a good cleaning might be.
Shep+

 

[guss0624]

It happens, it is a fact of life every now and again. Accept it and have things prepared for a nice tidy up immediately afterwards, then can come the cuddling.

I agree 100%... is your ass and we are humans... is normal that "something" comes out now and then.
Use a lot of lube, lots and breath deeply... and you will love it.