Anal sex hip movement/technique

[sirfrotalot]

Here is a topic I can't find much about on the internet which is shocking because it seems to make or break anal sex.

My partner and I have been at it for a while now. If he fucks me like you see in porn - the 'in and out' jackhammer approach - we get mixed results depending on the position, angle and other factors. Moving around to different positions, it can feel good, bad or neutral. The sphincters are fine, but it's that ramming into the end corner of the rectum or pushing the prostate too hard and hitting the bladder.

What we've found feels REALLY good - almost too good - is a slower, more rhythmic movement with hips rolling instead of thrusting. Picture this: We are spooning, with him penetrating me. I roll my whole hips and ass down, back, up and around in a circular motion. It feels GREAT for me and within 10-20 seconds he is telling me to stop because he's going to cum explosively. He doesn't even move much, and if he does, it shortens his "fuse" considerably and the load blows much faster.

The interesting thing is this probably wouldn't sell as many porn videos and so all we see on the internet is the jackhammer technique, and that seems to be what people assume will feel the best.

I spent the whole morning trying to google gay anal sex technique/hip movement and there were hardly any results. There is a lot for vaginal sex, obviously - some stuff I had no idea about - but it isn't as relevant because it is talking about different 'sweet spots'.

So why is this important topic going under the radar?

Any other techniques/movements you're aware of?

 

[mbamike]

I have been jack-hammered and can attest to the fact that it is not pleasurable to me as the bottom.

You should make a video so we can see what you are talking about.

I am beginning to think that most tops either don't know how to fuck to please their partners or they just don't give a shit as long as they bust a nut.

 

[sirfrotalot]

I have been jack-hammered and can attest to the fact that it is not pleasurable to me as the bottom.

You should make a video so we can see what you are talking about.

I am beginning to think that most tops either don't know how to fuck to please their partners or they just don't give a shit as long as they bust a nut.

Thanks for sharing! Not sure if I have the courage to do the video or not - we will see.

So how should a top fuck you for maximum pleasure?

I'm surprised this topic didn't generate more discussion. For others reading, do you disagree or is this just something you haven't really thought of?

All of the online guides seem to say "use lots of lube and go slow at first"... I think we can do better than that!

 

[sirfrotalot]

No one else?? Come on we must have some experts here... How do you massage the prostate with your cock without slamming it repeatedly?

 

[Kyanimal]

I've touched on this, just a bit, in my story, starting with Chapter 79 ...

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thr...-Mist/page21?p=9901253&viewfull=1#post9901253

 

[sirfrotalot]

I've touched on this, just a bit, in my story, starting with Chapter 79 ...

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thr...-Mist/page21?p=9901253&viewfull=1#post9901253

Thanks for the reply! I think you meant ch. 78 - good writing by the way!

So this technique is to thrust in, rotate, withdraw, repeat.

If he thrusts in with more than a few inches, his head is past the prostate right? So I assume the rotation is hitting the prostate more with the side of the shaft?

What kind of rotating motion are we talking about? A horizontal or vertical circular motion ?

 

[Kyanimal]

Thank You for the compliment about my writing!

Glad to hear you possibly enjoyed it!

The last part of your question has me a bit perplexed. Horizontal or Vertical would kind of depend on the position, of which there are many.

Butt ... If Horizontal is more side-to-side, or round-and-round, and Vertical is more in-and-out, I guess it would be more Horizontal. Kind of like stirring a cup of coffee, the penis being the spoon, and the rectum being the cup.

Not so much "plunge" as "swirl".

 

[sirfrotalot]

Thank You for the compliment about my writing!

Glad to hear you possibly enjoyed it!

The last part of your question has me a bit perplexed. Horizontal or Vertical would kind of depend on the position, of which there are many.

Butt ... If Horizontal is more side-to-side, or round-and-round, and Vertical is more in-and-out, I guess it would be more Horizontal. Kind of like stirring a cup of coffee, the penis being the spoon, and the rectum being the cup.

Not so much "plunge" as "swirl".

Your story was definitely entertaining! Thanks for sharing it.

And thanks for the response on swirling VS plunging.

Does swirling feel good for the top? I was bottoming for my partner after he got back from the gym last night and asked him to try it. He did it for about 20 seconds, which felt great, but them switched back to plunging. My intuition says the plunging is probably the most stimulating for the top from an immediate gratification perspective - possible to get off swirling, but it is much slower and more sensual so there is a different state of mind you need to get into to enjoy it.

What is your experience?

Btw - the swirling last night was doggy style but it seems ideal for the position where the bottom is on their back with knees up to the chest. That is where the plunging usually hits my prostate hard and I avoid the position because it is too much. But swirling like that must feel really good.

 

[palemale]

Thanks for sharing! Not sure if I have the courage to do the video or not - we will see.

So how should a top fuck you for maximum pleasure?

I'm surprised this topic didn't generate more discussion. For others reading, do you disagree or is this just something you haven't really thought of?

All of the online guides seem to say "use lots of lube and go slow at first"... I think we can do better than that!

The best tops I've been with happen to have had thick, 9" cocks. I think they're a little more conscious about their size and the need to use a little tlc at first to get their partner ready. The two best always start out spooning, both of us on our sides and entering from behind. Once in, we can maneuver into whatever position we desire. Neither of them ever jackhammered me, but boy could they fuck. My one buddy sometimes maneuvered me into doggy position and he could stroke me while continuing to fuck without breaking his rhythm until I came. He could also get me on my back and suck me off while fucking me. With both of them, when I was on my back, I'd grab their asses and pull myself onto them while squeezing my sphincter.

Most important, though. Both love to rim me. They get me nice and relaxed and wet and ready. I have a big ass. Both of them are black, which may explain their greater appreciation of my big behind than white guys.

 

[Kyanimal]

The "swirl" is more of a workout for the ass, whereas the "plunge" provides more sensation/friction for the penis. The best is a combination of both, resulting in a rotational in/out "grind".

One of the most satisfying positions I've found, from both aspects, is having the "receiver" on his side, with the "pitcher" straddling the lower inner thigh, and the other leg up in the air, with that ankle supported by the "pitcher's" shoulder, or being held up by one, or both, hands. That way, it's possible to get the dick as deep as it will go, right up to the pubes. Leaves the butt hole totally open and exposed. And, the guy laying on his side has latitude to move, too.

I don't know if there is a "proper" term for that. I like to think of it as "The Wishbone"!

Happy Playing!!

And, yeah! ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[sirfrotalot]

The best tops I've been with happen to have had thick, 9" cocks. I think they're a little more conscious about their size and the need to use a little tlc at first to get their partner ready. The two best always start out spooning, both of us on our sides and entering from behind. Once in, we can maneuver into whatever position we desire. Neither of them ever jackhammered me, but boy could they fuck. My one buddy sometimes maneuvered me into doggy position and he could stroke me while continuing to fuck without breaking his rhythm until I came. He could also get me on my back and suck me off while fucking me. With both of them, when I was on my back, I'd grab their asses and pull myself onto them while squeezing my sphincter.

Most important, though. Both love to rim me. They get me nice and relaxed and wet and ready. I have a big ass. Both of them are black, which may explain their greater appreciation of my big behind than white guys.

I also find starting on the side is the best! It goes in pretty easily and doesn't get as tight. A good icebreaker before switching positions.

 

[sirfrotalot]

The "swirl" is more of a workout for the ass, whereas the "plunge" provides more sensation/friction for the penis. The best is a combination of both, resulting in a rotational in/out "grind".

One of the most satisfying positions I've found, from both aspects, is having the "receiver" on his side, with the "pitcher" straddling the lower inner thigh, and the other leg up in the air, with that ankle supported by the "pitcher's" shoulder, or being held up by one, or both, hands. That way, it's possible to get the dick as deep as it will go, right up to the pubes. Leaves the butt hole totally open and exposed. And, the guy laying on his side has latitude to move, too.

I don't know if there is a "proper" term for that. I like to think of it as "The Wishbone"!

Happy Playing!!

And, yeah! ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!!
Chaz

We tried the position you described and it felt a little too hard on the prostate and too deep but I wonder if it was the motion you described instead of thrusting then maybe it would have been great.

Have you ever seen any porn videos of the swirl/thrust grind? They usually seem to just be thrust so I'm at a bit of a loss..

 

[Kyanimal]

I've not yet seen it in videos. I'll be keeping my eyes open, though!