Anal Sex is it necessary?

[83KBCT]

Hi all , Long time reader first time poster. I'm not sure if I posted this topic in the right place but I wanted to talk about Anal sex.

These days to hear terms like Top / Bottom / Versatile etc.. Yet what about people who do not find anal sex all that interesting? When I was younger I always thought of myself as a Top if I had to choose but with that said it still never really interested me.

I'm sure there are other people in gay relationships that do not have anal sex.
Yet I really have not come across many people with these views.

Just looking for peoples opinions.

Thanks...

 

[a_guebo]

In my case... I've never had anal sex, neither topping or bottoming... it's not appealing for me at all... but that doesn't mean you can't have fun.... I mean, you can have a lot of imagination and there are other ways to stimulate you.

In my case, I consider myself bi... and I have had intercorse with girls and in my case I feel that more stimulating for me, rather than having anal sex (with any gender).


I mean, importance in having anal sex will depend on each individual... but I'm sure you'll find tons of guys like you or myself that we don't NEED it to have a great nite. Just let's be creative!

 

[Lefty]

Blame it on a tightly structured and unyielding formative

years [Infant-Toddler] Icky poo poo.. I still carry the

stigmata of that refrain today /// Icky Poo Poo

 

[Just_Believe18]

It's kinda a big deal.

 

[Seasoned]

It really depends on you. Don't allow yourself to be forced into doing anything you don't want to do. On the other hand, stay open to exploration with a trusted partner.

 

[KaraBulut]

There are some other threads on the forum where members have stated that they had an active sex life but never had anal - in either top or bottom.

Is it a problem? Not really, if you and your partner don't have an interest in it.

The issue is that it is limiting. Guys tend to want to experiment and have some variety, so it may be difficult to find a partner who is willing to forgo anal sex in a long term relationship.

On the other hand, you won't find a shortage of guys who will blow you or let you blow them. At least one time.

 

[Kirbster66]

For me it's definitely necessary. While I respect a person's sexual interests, if he's not into anal, he's not for me. Anal is way too important to me to be willing not to have it.

 

[Audio Tech]

Well, I started experimenting with a Dildo long ago. I was curious what the big deal was. After the first few uncomfortable moments, it actually feels REALLY good. To me, anyway. After having one of the most intense and pleasurable orgasms of my LIFE, I realized the role that Anal sex can play for a man. So I, for one, have to have it to feel completely satisfied. Without it, I may as well screw girls.

Once I find someone for a LTR, I plan to enjoy a lot of it. Though every one is different, I never thought I'd enjoy having things stuck up my ass until I tried it.

 

[bearbacked]

My partner and I RARELY have anal sex, and we've been together for 7 years. Sucking each other off is the "normal" activity when we have sex.

Find someone like yourself who is not interested in anal sex. He's out there. Don't know if he's easy or hard to find. But just because you're gay it doesn't mean you have to travel the hershey road.

 

[KaraBulut]

To me, anyway. After having one of the most intense and pleasurable orgasms of my LIFE, I realized the role that Anal sex can play for a man.

I have had more than a few straight friends confide that they like their female partners play with their ass- a lot are willing to accept a finger but a few will go as far as taking a strap-on.

 

[Lefty]

play around is to poke around

as smoke is to fire

It does't take a six or better inch dick to make prostrate by prostate.

Just ask your Doctor when he is "playing" Doctor.

 

[LoveIsNow]

I've had no problem forgoing anal sex, because I'm always open and explicit about it from the beginning. It sends some people away, but it's better to take a little time looking than having to be in a sexually unfulfilling relationship.

 

[G-Lexington]

Well, how much anal sex have you had? I know when I was first coming out, I was certain I'd NEVER have anal sex - top OR bottom. But once I had a boyfriend, and I enjoyed playing around with him in bed, I decided sure - I'd give it a try. And I'll be damned. I liked it. I found I quite liked topping, and didn't mind bottoming, either. Anal still isn't my first choice, but I'm happy it's on the menu, if you catch my drift.

If you've tried it several times - not just with some guy, but with somebody you're comfortable with - and you still aren't interested, then yeah, I'd say you should feel comfortable saying you're not into it. And there are plenty of guys out there who aren't crazy about it, either.

Lex

 

[ericwhitney]

when it comes to sex, the only thing that's necessary is open, tactful communication. everything else is up to you and your partner.

 

[hungrybrownbear]

If you find a quality man, you'll find that anal sex is just a bonus treat, hopefully, he doesn't try to pressure you into doing it.

The best sex I've ever had in my life was not anal.

 

[mbamike]

I love sucking cock and the feel of a cock in my ass. So for me, it is a big deal.

But, to each his own.

 

[Lube]

Can you imagine going on a straight sex board and seeing a guy state, "I love my girlfriend but I just can't imagine fucking her."

WTF?