Anal Sex Question

[Super Nintendo Chalmers]

So I'm having a little bit of a problem with it comes to anal sex with my boyfriend, and I just don't know how to resolve it.

We've been dating for about a year now, and have been barebacking for the past 6 months or so, as we are in an exclusive relationship. Whenever we engage in anal sex, I do all the tips you guys say a guy should do before it; I wash with a little bit of soap, I take a poop a little bit beforehand, and I make sure the area is generally clean. It's just that, about 75% of the time when we fuck, when my boyfriend pulls his penis out, there's usually a bit of shit covering it.

Thank God for me he knows I can't control it, and tells me that it's completely fine, and he just goes and washes his cock off. But the second it happens, I sort of get down and out of the mood a bit. It's like no matter what I do, I can't control this.

My boyfriend is fairly large, about 7 3/4 inches and decent thickness, and he fucks me deep. He doesn't so much do long strokes, as he does just keeps it deep in there with shorter ones. Does anyone have any idea to ensure that no shit ever gets on his cock? What can I do? Please help! Thanks.

 

[PhunkSpunk]

You're pooping just prior to sex. You can't wipe the inside of your hole, which is probably the source of the poop.

Try following up you pre-sex poop with an enema. You can either purchase a Fleet (about a buck) or buy a bulb syringe made expressly for that purpose. Very easy to self-administer.

Also, you may want to increase the fiber content of your diet, which will make your voidings more complete.

 

[bluehorizon]

I'd like to hear more on this subject...thanks

 

[TygreBryte]

the enema bulbs are more comfortable if you use warm water!

 

[Super Nintendo Chalmers]

if thanks for the responses guys.

as to taking the shit before sex... I just think it's best, cause I figure if I get it all out of me, there'll be nothing in there when he's fucking me. I guess it is impossible to 'wipe" all the poop out of my ass though.

I guess I'll look into one of those bulb enema thingies... anyone know where I can order one?

 

[123kid]

i believe you can get them just at the local drug store

 

[saaga07]

I can't believe you guys are taking this post seriously!

Let's see.. you insert something (in this case, a penis) into an anus, where feces is stored in the body, and when you pull it out, there's feces on it. Who knew?!?

Just do what your boyfriend does -- realize that it's a common part of having anal sex and get over it.

 

[3stripes]

Let's see.. you insert something (in this case, a penis) into an anus, where feces is stored in the body, and when you pull it out, there's feces on it.

False information - the rectum is empty until shortly before you need to crap.

Yeah, but it IS preventable if you really want to through enemas, like several people have suggested. Just because it is a likely event doesn't mean people should just deal with it if they don't want to.

False information again.

read the sticky at the top of this forum

 

[Txgoodoldboy]

if thanks for the responses guys.

as to taking the shit before sex... I just think it's best, cause I figure if I get it all out of me, there'll be nothing in there when he's fucking me. I guess it is impossible to 'wipe" all the poop out of my ass though.

I guess I'll look into one of those bulb enema thingies... anyone know where I can order one?

If you go to Walgreen's, or similar drug store, they have Ear Syringes, 3 oz. capacity. It is for washing out wax in the ear. Since it is small, it will wash out the rectum. If you want to go farther, with more water, do it twice. Use a disposal plastic cup to run warm water into. Then, suck the water into the bulb of the syringe. Then, carefully with lube, insert the tip into the ass. Then, sqeeze. Expel. Repeat, until clean. Do this about an hour, or two, before sex. You will figure out what works best for you.

If you want something bigger, most leather sites have larger rectal thingies.

 

[najfus]

i've never had a problem with feces.

but as people have said above, an enema should do the trick.

 

[sentirpromesas]

u dont need an enema...it actually causes more harm than good...

 

[tonyboy]

So I'm having a little bit of a problem with it comes to anal sex with my boyfriend, and I just don't know how to resolve it.

We've been dating for about a year now, and have been barebacking for the past 6 months or so, as we are in an exclusive relationship. Whenever we engage in anal sex, I do all the tips you guys say a guy should do before it; I wash with a little bit of soap, I take a poop a little bit beforehand, and I make sure the area is generally clean. It's just that, about 75% of the time when we fuck, when my boyfriend pulls his penis out, there's usually a bit of shit covering it.

Thank God for me he knows I can't control it, and tells me that it's completely fine, and he just goes and washes his cock off. But the second it happens, I sort of get down and out of the mood a bit. It's like no matter what I do, I can't control this.

My boyfriend is fairly large, about 7 3/4 inches and decent thickness, and he fucks me deep. He doesn't so much do long strokes, as he does just keeps it deep in there with shorter ones. Does anyone have any idea to ensure that no shit ever gets on his cock? What can I do? Please help! Thanks.

Seems it bothers you more than it does him. Sounds like you've a loving and great boyfriend man. That is more important than a little bit of shit on the end of his dick. Once he washes it off you can continue. I'd say don't worry about it.
Eat more fiber as was written ^.... that should help.... but the main thing is you've got a mate that doesn't care about that.
As some very wise young man told me here recently, what do you expect when you fuck? That part of the body is used for waste discharge.... as long as it is just a bit and he understands, there are far worse things to deal with in a relationship.

 

[Super Nintendo Chalmers]

yo - can you guys continue the fight via private messages? I didn't mean for this thread to turn into a fight, and personally, I don't think many of us are interested in seeing it go on any further. Thanks!

 

[jockboy01]

Yes, the fight has disappeared... like magic. Please don't start it all over again. Thanks.

There is a sticky at the top of the forum. But as stated, it sounds like it's more an issue for you than your bf. And a little bit of crap is kind of to be expected. I wouldn't worry about as your bf doesn't seem to care. Life is messy afterall.

 

[Brer Fox]

I have actually really and truly never had a problem with anything getting on anyone. I make sure I feel 'alright' up there, and I always use the restroom and give an enema a few times. This is maybe a little gross, but so is the whole topic, and I am just being honest as to how I keep the santorum at bay:

Enemas are awesome if you only use water. I always take a shower before I know anything is going to happen or I go somewhere where there is a chance a dick will end up in me. I don't use a fleet bottle, I actually just use an empty bottle that is small, like a soap container. In the shower I fill it all the way with warm water, then I work it up into the anus a little and squirt just enough to fill the rectum, leave it there for a few minutes to dissolve whatever, then the first time I will visit the toilet and get rid of it. It is very, very important to not get too much up there, and critical that it not get into the colon, or you will have a very upset digestive system. You also want to get rid of all of it... leaking isn't any fun.

Often your first run encourages a good bit of stuff to get out of there, so the toilet is a better option than just the shower. I then go back and do it again, and again to the toilet. Then I usually give it one more go just letting it out in the shower and by now it is 95% water. The fourth is almost always completely clean, like you could pretty much drink it clean, so I usually don't bother.

After that, to prevent drying of the rectal wall which even regular water can sometimes encourage, I will lube up one finger and moisturise as well as doing a final check. Sometimes I will take a 'Dildo' (I say that because I actually just use another bottle) that is about eight inches, and do a test. Almost invariably there is nothing on it. Hooray, clean bottom!

But you shouldn't obsess over just a little bit, no. We need to divorce ourselves from the idea that either of you are going to be totally clean. I have gotten a bit on me before the few times I've topped, and I did not think twice. We all know what it is, it isn't acid. Just wash it off.

That said, I think it is one of those pre-sex duties that is just a good idea. The solid stuff at least finger deep, to me, must be removed. I do not want to finger someone and have that unpleasantry. If there is actual solid waste in your rectum, you need to go to the bathroom.

 

[rickdboy]

For what is worth, I rarely have a problem with soiling my partner's cock but iIfully understand the negative feelings when it happens. I feel them too even though my partner says it is no big deal.
By and large though the rectum is clear of faecal matter and I personally don't believe in enemas.
If you play a bit with a Dildo you might learn a few things about your internal anatomy. Clearly if your partners cock is long enough and opens the opening into your bowel, this will not only feel good (if done right) it will no doubt expose the penetrating organ to faecal matter which is in the bowel.

You can explore this with a Dildo and maybe what you can learn is how to reciprocate when fucking so as to provide pleasure for your partner without him penetrating quite so far. But is you want to do the deep penetration then a consequence is soiling.

Love your man and love him more for loving you.