anal sex

[edgasm69]

so i know this may sound stupid.. but like can anyone describe what anal feels like

my boyfriend and i have been really close since the start of our relationship.. and we even decided to move in with each other soon.
the problem i'm faced with now is that i came up with this idea that the two of us have sex on the 31st (i'm still a virgin)

so yeah, he had a past experience and i guess it wasn't a plesant one(where he was the bottom) so i told him that it'd be okay and i'd let him top since he never got a chance to before.

so like i said.. i'm a virgin and i have no clue how anal will feel like. i'm kinda scared but i really want to do this for him..

so my question is.. how does anal feel? and like.. um how much does it hurt..
stupid to ask i know.. but i just would feel so much better to know

 

[TygreBryte]

Hmm. My experience was, once I got "physically fit" to be a bottom, it was just awesome. Hard to describe, but being the bottom in a good romp put "a song in my heart" more than once!

But if some guy is really tight, I don't think it's a good idea to rush into without a lot of progressive finger-play and dildo/plug practice. Don't rush yourselves!

 

[JayHew]

TAKE YOUR TIME, lots of ass play, light fingering, LOTS of lube. It can be really nice, just not rushing and since you will bottom, you actually control the situation. You will feel full and like you need to take a dump at first, but with a few moments that passes and will not be so unpleasant. If you take your time there will be no actual pain. Good luck.

 

[Invidious]

The previous posters have pretty much already covered it, but yeah..LOTs and LOTs of lube. Go slow..have him play with your ass first to help you relax..also try to have him just put the head in, just past the 1st sphincter...then wait..the internal sphincter will open after a bit and he will be able to penetrate you fully.

 

[edgasm69]

thank you everybody for the responses.. it means so much to me..
again. thank you so much <3

 

[Steppenwolf]

There are a few more things that might help. Have fun, be patient, and talk to each other about what feels good and what doesn't. Don't be afraid to try different things, and don't be discouraged if it doesn't work the first time. You'll quickly find that it's not exactly like you've seen in those X-rated movies. Not everything works on cue. If it hurts too much the first time, try it again a day or two later. You can have fun in bed whether it's anal sex, oral sex, or just cuddling. It's best if you can do all three

 

[notrump]

Definitely take your time. Lots of foreplay. Arrive at the point where you want him so bad you're almost begging for it. You so desperately want to feel him inside you. You want to pleasure him more than you have ever done in the past. Passionate lovemaking.

 

[9Times]

It feels great to me
Both ways!

The one principle people forget is sexual COMPATIBILITY AND ATTRACTION plays significantly on how it will feel for you and your partner. I have a quick story:

My last hook-up was with an average fellow (7/7.5 inches). We were both pretty tipsy and I was looking for a quickie. Did not like the guy AT ALL, so sex (top and bottom) was unpleasant and frustrating! But a "best friend" of mine (a whopping 9/9.5 inches with much girth) can insert directly (with patience of course) and he fits like a glove!

Anyway, beyond the physical aspects, if your mind is not there, you won't even make it (to esctacy!)