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Just a short update today. If you want to see the latest cutie I met at a party, check out my gallery. There's also a picture with me, him and Thomas, who I wrote about in my last Blog entry. By the way, Thomas drinks too much. He's always drunk at parties and has weird sexual interests. Definitely no relationship person for me, but a good new friend to hang out with at bars/parties.

The cutie in my new pics is André. He's 23 years old. Almost the same name as mine (Andree). What a coincidence?! He's Cancer aswell and was pretty nice to cuddle with last Saturday after the party. He's a real slim guy, but it still felt nice to embrace him while sitting on the couch in the gay bar. His (hetero) female friend, who acompanied him to the party, was jealous that he got me. She said that she's jealous that I'm not hetero... Awwww, too bad

I'll definitely have to meet André again. But I noticed that I am not falling for a new guy that quickly anymore. (*pats his new emotional energy field that protects him*) There's definitely interest from him (and from me), but it's not all out love yet. Maybe something will develop - who knows.

 

[Andross]

Well it's official. I'll see him again April 27th - April 29th. He'll stay at my place and the weekend after that, I'll stay at his place. Here's another pic with him in it (he's the guy on the right-hand side)

We have some plans for that weekend - watching DVD, meeting friends (gay of course), going to the gay bar, cinema, having coffee, etc. Maybe we'll also have some sex if the feelings are right.

Can't wait for April 27th! Woohoo

 

[Andross]

Due to unforeseen circumstances, the reunion with my sweetie will have to wait until tomorrow. My current guest (a 56-year old friend whom I met in an internet chat for gays 8 years ago) had trouble with his car. The repairs took a few days so we decided he can stay until Sunday morning. My apartment is not big enough for 2 guests at the same time. Besides, I want André for myself the whole time He will be here tomorrow (Sunday, April 29) at 8 or 9 PM. Maybe we will go out and have some coffee and chat a bit or maybe we will just head out to the huge park nearby and have a sunbath. Monday will be the big day with a huge gay party celebrating the 11th anniversary of one of our most famous local gay magazines (Gegenpol). I'll be there with my boyfriend. My boss and her wife will be there, aswell as my best lesbian girl"friend". I warned them that I will be there with my new boyfriend and I will look like I'm on cloud #7 or so. Wish me luck that all goes well. It's the first time we see each other again since I met him 3 weeks ago. We chatted almost everyday or sent SMS on our cell phones, so we know each other quite a bit better now than we did back then. I can't wait to hold him in my arms and kiss him again, to cuddle with him on the sofa while watching TV.

 

[Andross]

Looks like I have a boyfriend again! André and me agreed to call our status "boyfriends" Although he doesn't live in my town, I think it is ok the way it is. Not seeing each other every day appears like a good way to keep a relationship fresh and interesting. Some withdrawal from being together makes it nicer to see each other again. We will see each other again this Friday. I'll use the train to get to his town about 1 hour away. We'll have a great Saturday and drive to the party in my hometown on Saturday evening. On Sunday we'll probably have a walk at the park and drink some coffee again.

Oh, did I mention that I ate Sushi for the first time last Monday? I was in town with my boyfriend and we discovered a Sushi bar, which we decided to try out immediately. It was actually quite nice and I didn't get any stomach cramps or something ;-) We were at a gay party together and had a great time, beaming with love for each other and telling all our friends that we're together now. Well I sat there decoratively most of the time while he told his friends, hehe...

We even ended up in bed together after the party and although he was quite shy the first night - sleeping with his briefs on - he wasn't that shy anymore after the first time we had sex. And oh was it great! The first orgasm with him was earth shattering. Well it was two orgasms actually, because I was so turned on, we continued to a second climax. His body is slim and almost flawless, his cock tastes very nice and I enjoyed sharing my bed with him. Everytime we cuddle, I get a hardon because he turns me on so much. *sigh* My bed feels very big and empty, now that he's not in it anymore. I am seriously contemplating giving up my dislike for anal sex just to try it with him. He says he already did it and enjoyed it. If I can help, I'll make him feel good.

He's mine and I am his. It feels right, because we fit together perfectly. We're both cancer and share very similar interests such as computer gaming, music from Enigma, Enya, Vangelis, Trance/Dance/House, parties, walks in the park, cuddling... Our personalities are quite similar. I like that a lot.

I'll try to get a picture of both of us together at the next party, so I can show him off to you If everything goes fine, we'll attend the CSDs in my hometown and in Berlin next month together. That's going to be lots of fun aswell. Wooho

 

[Andross]

It feels unreal to me, how perfectly my boyfriend and me fit together. We share the same names and same zodiac signs. Our interests are quite similar and his body turns me on so much that I walk around with a hardon most of the time, when he's nearby. *blushes*

Our official "We are now a couple" day has been agreed to be April 30th 2007. If we make it to our first anniversary (which I am sure we will), that is our special day.

I added a picture of him, which I took yesterday at his apartment after breakfast. He's cute, isn't he? *smiles*

I stayed at his place from Friday to Saturday and he showed me around his hometown a bit. It's a small town (~ 5000 citizens) and not at all comparable to the "big city" flair of my hometown (Dresden, ~ 500.000 citizens). I liked his apartment a lot. It is nicely decorated (if still a bit empty, but that will change) and we had much fun playng "Baldur's Gate: Dark Alliance 2" on his PS2 together. He cooked an awesome meal for us (turkey breast on cheese-onion sauce with baguette).

Yesterday we were at a gay party together. Our second gay party as a couple. I enjoyed it a lot and so did he. It felt nice to see the jealous glances of most of the other gay guys on us, while we were dancing closely together and french-kissing almost all the time Pictures from the party will follow. The photographer took one of me in an odd situation... that's going to be a funny pic, you'll see.

He will come to my place again in two weeks and we will be marching as a couple during this year's Christopher Street Day in my hometown. We also plan to visit our capital (Berlin) at the end of June to take part in the CSD there. That's probably going to be lots of fun!

Thanks to my friend Thomas (the guy I wrote about earlier aswell) for introducing André to me. Without him, I would probably have never met my boyfriend.

 

[Andross]

Today my former boyfriend ended the relationship we had. He said that his feelings do not feel like love, but more like friendship. I was prepared for it, because I almost felt the same way. The distance between us was the major deciding factor for me - although I would not have ended our relationship because of that. While I am a little sad that it didn't work out (again), it was yet another learning experience. No matter how infatuated someone is with you at first - there's always the possibility that it will not grow into love. Especially in relationships where you see each other on a rather irregular basis, that seems to be a likely outcome.

By the way, does anyone know what requirements usually need to be met to have someone fall in love with you? So far, I've tried to be a good boyfriend to the people I was with (temporarily), but somehow it always results in friendships (which eventually fade away due to previous intimate experiences and awkwardness).

My "emotional force field" prevented my heart from breaking again due to this, so I plan to go to the gay party today with him and some mutual friends. I can already see myself looking like a sad puppy dog - but meeting new people and being open for new relationships is also not such a bad thing. If it turns out to be unbearable, I can still go to another party where my boss and her wife are celebrating their 2nd anniversary.

I'm single again.

 

[Andross]

This year's CSD (Christopher Street Day, called "Gay Pride Parade" or so elsewhere) here in Dresden, Germany was again a huge party, with few political demands. It was hot all over - hot weather, hot boys, hot music. The few drops of rain we experienced during the early half of the CSD was a welcome refreshment.

The group I was with was a mixture of normal guys, my ex, his new bf and a couple of drag queens Our "security" guys were definitely the hottest of the whole parade. By the way, if you want to drink lots of alcohol, eat something containing a lot of fat before. That really helps staying half sober!

I took a few snapshots during the parade. Some show my boss and her wife and a few pics show some really hot guys (my personal opinion of course).

If you view the pics, it is better to view them as a slideshow. That way you can see them in full resolution (800x600).

Enjoy!

 

[Andross]

Yesterday was no gay party day, unfortunately. However, that doesn't mean that us gays don't have other things to do. Instead of a gay party, a whole part of my hometown became a party area. You should have seen the masses of people - it was simply unreal. Nevertheless we had a great time in front of the gay bar with great music, barbecue, alcohol and friends. Practically everyone from the gay scene was present at some time during the day.

I went there late in the afternoon and took some pictures during the evening. Due to the alcohol I had, I forgot most of the names of the people I took pictures of, but I guess, that doesn't matter all that much

You can check out the pics in my newest gallery here:
Bunte Republik Neustadt​

 

[Andross]

Today I found out what it feels like to spend an evening with friends watching TV (Desperate Housewives, Weeds, Grey's Anatomy). The special thing is that all of them are gay. My own little family of gay friends. Practically the whole apartment building is gay. Gay to the left, gay to the right, gay below, gay in the room next door... it feels great!

Basti, his friend Christian and Lars (another new friend) and me spent the evening watching TV, having drinks (I brought some cherry juice, apple juice and amaretto... yummy!!) and talking about all sorts of stuff. The best thing is that Basti lives directly in the part of town where our gay scene is. Very comfortable for going to parties or various gay bars. *envy*

Oh and if you didn't know yet... today was also my birthday. I'm 27 now... which is an ugly age to be honest. It's still the Twenties, but almost Thirties and the "27" is an ugly number in my opinion. I don't know why, but I don't like numbers with sharp edges like that. My birthday presents were ~200 Euros money from my grandparents and my mom and lots of birthday emails, greeting cards, phone calls, etc. My mom invited me for dinner this Thursday. Let's see what she has in mind, shall we?

My team leader at work bought two birthday cakes for me. They had only 20 candles on top of them, but that's alright We'll eat them at work tomorrow (that's me and the team of 8 I work with).

The best present was of course the evening with friends and we'll all see each other again coming Saturday at the Think Pink party. Thanks for that!! *hugs* - the person I mean knows *wink*

Unfortunately I forgot taking a picture I'll take lots at the next party instead.

 

[Andross]

Last weekend was quite eventful for me and my friends. Not only was it time again for Think Pink, the best gay party in town. We also had the opportunity to be guests at La Grande Revue of the Travesty theatre "Carte Blanche", here in Dresden.

But let's begin with a short review of the party... To make it very short: I was drunk. A bit more than usual and no, I did not wake up in bed with another man - unfortunately?!

Again lots of hot and not-so-hot boys and men were at the party. Sadly also lots of hetero guys and girls frequent "our" parties more and more, so it is becoming increasingly difficult to distinguish between gays and non-gays. The problem is that the non-gays tend to have a problem with gays flirting with them and sometimes it ends in violence - broken noses and blood and all that. It didn't happen to me (it almost did, but I was gone too quickly, I guess *hehe* ) but another poor soul had his night ruined due to such an unfortunate encounter with the fist of a hetero male.

Nevertheless the party was again quite successful. Although some people say it had less visitors than the previous Think Pink, I felt quite comfortable with the amount of people there. Due to the thick smoke in the air (from a fog machine mainly), most of my pictures were not usable. I uploaded some to my Online Gallery here.

The official gallery can be found here again - there are some pics that should not be shown to the public *hides*


The second event this weekend was the big travesty show "La Grande Revue" of the "Carte Blanche" theatre in Dresden. I went there together with my two best friends Basti and Christian. We had a nice night together with our usual crowd of gay party people.

You can check out my pics of that event right here. Thanks to Basti for the idea of going there with them. It was well worth it! (That is... if you are into drag queens in amazing costumes singing chansons and dancing...)