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another boyfriend issue

I suggest putting together a plan. Because of the situation (no job, dependent on parents), it might not be best to create a confrontational moment right now. Put together a plan that lays out what needs to happen or this much time passes, we will do X. For example, after you get a job and he gets a job you stop this charade and he moves out and in with you or finds a gay friendly roommate.

As long as he isn't making excuses and you are not making excuses, it's kind of stupid to get your ass put out on the street because your mom is manipulative bitch. If I have the location right, you are in Georgia and those southern women can be stubborn. They eventually come around, but not until they are sure they can't have their way.

So hang tight, get your act together. If your boyfriend needs to bring a girl home or do whatever, then I say, so be it, to get past this short period of bad luck - find a friend though - getting some girl involved when she thinks he might be serious is not very nice.

Hang in there sport and get busy looking for a job and he should do the same thing. Get out from under her as soon as possible. I am sure this is not the only way her influence is manifested in their relationship.

I have a friend and he graduated from college and his mom (from a lovely southern town) will barely speak to him...it's the damnedest thing I have ever seen. All of her friends think he's the most wonderful thing but she just can't deal. Really quite amazing and I never understood it until I hear what she says to him (you would die if you heard some of the things).

Sit down, get a plan, set a timeframe, then move on it. You may have to adjust a little, don't get to rigid, but don't make excuses either.

Jeff
 
Not sure how you're fixed, but if he was my boyfriend and I felt about him as you do, I'd ask him to move in with me.
 
Where do you live? If it's at home, maybe your parents will let him bunk down at your house? Because I assume that as they are not mentioned, if it's the case that you live at home, tgeyare more accepting. Maybe they'd see your situation.

Surely yor bf's mum wouldn't go thru with it anyway. And if she would, then humouring her will not sve the situation. Being wling to throw her son out now could turn into something else later on.

If she thinks she can dictate her son's life, then she should realise that in the future she risks not having a son who will talk to her.
 
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