Another Holiday season with no boyfriend/"friend"/lover

[menRsexii]

I completely understand, something I'm not happy about lol. Not only do I not have a partner now but I never have It's so depressing, my brother and sister constantly dating and having bfs/gfs and I feel just stuck here, not going anywhere with my life.

 

[palemale]

I think the difference is that the older you get, the more you are aware of other members of your family having a significant other . . .

I sometimes look at some of the significant others of family members and think, "I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than spend it with that asshole."

 

[tbtmo02]

This is year #2 in a row and I am sad. I hope this doesn't become a pattern for my future.

It sucks the only people to share this end of year is my family. While I do appreciate and love them they pretend they don't know i am gay or simply avoid it (quite deftly I might add). So the same old routine happens when everyone starts talking about their lives and I keep quite to avoid the awkward silences and looks lol. Now this wouldn't matter If I had someone cause wed be making out somewhere instead . Well at least they don't ask me "do you have a girlfriend?" anymore lol

No idea why I am writing this, guess I need to vent it somewhere.

i feel you even though in 19 ive already reached the point where i just want to share my life with

 

[treanir]

this is a very tough time of year to be single.

Amen!

This time of year, everything is even more coupley than usual. We're bombarded with images, JUB posts, Facebook pictures etc. of couples cuddling on the couch. For those of us with a large family to celebrate it with (unlike me), it's also a time when the "so, when are you going to be married?" questions have to be fielded.

Then comes New Year's Eve. I love NYE, because I get to spend it with friends. However, the stroke of midnight is like a dagger in my heart, because those with a bf/gf have someone to kiss. Then follows the hugs and whatnot. But in those first seconds of the new year, I'm deftly reminded that I'm alone. What a fun way to start the new year. And it has always been so.

Great, now I'm blue.