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hey everyone.
my last post here was about my friend from the eop program. i realized he wasnt the right one and that i was gonna let him go. BUT then i met another guy who is bi. well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me too but then a few days later he said hes straight. so i hung out with him and i went out partying with him and we came back to my apartment with some of our friends. one of out friends is a girl that he likes. she turned him down and he went to my bed and layed there. so i came in and talked to him and he said he really wished something happened that night. and i thought he meant with her and so i said "im sorry. just give her time," and he said "i didnt mean with her. i meant with you." and he kissed me. so after a minute i pulled back and said "i thought you didnt like guys like that?" and he said "i didnt think i did. but the more i thought about it the more i realized i liked you". after that we went all the way that night and the next day he claimed he didnt remember anything that happened. so i sent him a text saying 'want me to tell u what happened last night?' and he said he had the feeling he didnt want to know. but i know that he knows what happened. im confused! im starting to like him even more.
 
It sounds like he took a shot at hooking up with the girl, and when that didn't work, hey, he was horny and you were convenient. But now that he's gotten his rocks off, hey, how 'bout that, he's straight again, and he doesn't remember a thing.

Feel free to tell him what happened. I have a feeling this guy is only going to be interested in a repeat performance when the girls say no, and there've been enough drinks that he can feign memory loss the next day. And I have a feeling you can do better than that.

Lex
 
No one should ever be the second choice for confused "straight" guys.

If they aren't man enough to kiss you when they're sober and they aren't man enough to be honest about what they really want, then it's all a waste of time.


andrew17 said:
i know that he knows what happened. im confused! im starting to like him even more.

Sorry, but you were used.

Drop it and move on while you still have a your self-esteem.
 
I will never buy the i dont remember what happened last night bull crap. Ive been totally wasted to the point where i can not form words and i can still remember what happened the whole night especially if i got laid. I would see if he wanted to hang out sometime and put some moves on him see how he reacts
 
Yeah getting laid is something you usually remember even with an incredi-fucking-ble hangover.

He's nervous and needs time to come around. Other than that, he's also a dick for what he did to you.

Don't lose more sleep that you need to over him.
 
What Lalada said.

The guy isn't comfortable with himself. So he won't be comfortable with you (e.g., amnesia).

Give him up at least until he admits he's gay. Even then it's questionable.
 
ugh

The 3 beer queer syndrome.

Indeed he remembers what happened.

But if it were me, I'd remind him in graphic detail.

I bet he'll do the 'I was so drunk I don't remember what I was doing' with you again whenever he isn't able to nail some pussy.

Or, more likely, he is only pretending to be sniffing after snatch when he is just plain closeted and always on the hunt for cock.

I don't think he's worth your time. He's only going to keep dropkicking you to the curb.
 
Hey Andrew,

Mate... do yourself a huge favour. Run... as fast as you can from this guy... dont walk... and whatever you do dont look back.

No one deserves to be used or to have their emotions toyed with. And as hard as it will be to move on you have too... you are falling for a guy who right now cant be on the same page you are.

And thats fine... we have all been at that place at some stage, but his inability to be honest with you, up front with and to trust you with the truth are the real signs that you are going to end up with a broken heart... and you mate dont deserve that.
 
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