The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    To register, turn off your VPN; you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

Another Straight man playing games. Sigh...

JNewYork said:
It's more than "a smile." He looks intensely and hungrily at me. But when there's a third person there he keeps his head down. When it's just us he's practically raping me with his eyes.
Click to expand...

do you want to have adult fun with him?
If so why not ask if he is "practically raping you with his eyes".
 
I am seeing a 'straight' guy myself and have experienced the same problems you have. He still is distant sometimes when we are in public (though not rude or dismissive), but when it is just the 2 of us or when we are around a part of the City where we aren't known, he is the most loving person I have ever met. I love him so much and I know he loves me as well and although I do wish we could not have to hide our feelings at times, I would not want him out of my life ever. I have come to accept what we have and I am happy because he has chosen me and I him.
 
I think flixelblix's post makes sense.

I'm guessing the ones of you who do are not just out but obviously gay. They know you're gay by looking at you so they know to flirt with you if they're interested.

I really never get this attention from straight guys. :mad:
 
Jasun, you're harsh but I fully understand where you're coming from.

A long time ago I was manipulated by a straight dude. Somebody on a forum (who knows maybe it was you!) told me that I'd have to figure out why I'm so thirsty that I'd be willing to drink from the puddle of mud this guy is providing for me.

I never forgot that advice from a stranger. It helped me wake up.

As harsh as your comments are above, I'm guessing they will do more good than harm.
 
Sometimes in this life it is not always just about you as an individual. There are other people involved and it is not easy for everyone to come out of the closet all the time as soon as they think they are gay. There are always ramifications to our actions and I am fine with allowing my man the time he needs to sort out his issues. I guess I will continue to bask in my low 'self worth' in the mean time and continue to drink from my puddle of mud as sweet as it is.
 
Don't take too much offense Jasun, my post is just an explanation of how people can be. I'd like to think I've grown up since then.

I do stand by the assertion that we are all two people. The person we are when we look in the mirror as well as the person we try to convince others we are. As a highly paid professional that deals with software vendors on a regular basis, I project myself as a confident professional. Suite, tie, and all. I don't discuss my money problems, marital problems, religious beliefs, etc. with coworkers, vendors or anyone who hasn't been to my house.

At home I'm the Pagan nudist and closet bisexual with enough problems in my life to worry about without worrying about someone else's desire for me to like them unconditionally.

I am also very honest with any person that tries to get too close to me, I tell them up front what they can expect and what the rules are. I have no problem telling you that if you can't live by my rules, you can just go away. Hell, look at my avatar.

And yes, I know all about heartache. In 1995, I woke up to a gunshot in my bed as my wife committed suicide while I lay sleeping next to her... Until you've been there, don't lecture me on heartache.

I'll get off my soapbox now and return you to your regularly scheduled program...
 
JNewYork - He smiles at you when you're paying him for shit like maintaining your building and pumping gas... yeah, he's definitely gay and into you.

You're fucking delusional.
 
Yeah, you're right. I'm prone to delusions. Thanks for giving us all the most sensible and mature advice.

Merry Christmas!
 
you're probably just reading WAAAAY too much into his advances. he's probably straight and just very friendly with you.
 
DVM26uk said:
... or

Could it be that you're looking to much into it. There are people out there who are naturally friendly in nature, of course that doesn't account for the whole difference in personality when others are around.

I've had many similar encounters myself and as frustrating as it is I've have to regularly remind myself that I'm looking to much into these situations and confusing genuine friendship with some kind of sexual attraction.
Click to expand...

yep, exactly. sometimes it's all in your head and this str8 dude is simply a big time flirt who does that to everybody.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top