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So im a 22yo and Ive done stuff with guys before (not all the way) and now Ive got my first Boy Crush. Hes my age, tall, slender, blond but the thing is im not sure if he is gay or not, i get the feeling that he is because sometimes when we are around each other it kinda gets awkward and tense.

He wants me to text him tomorrow when he gets his phone fixed but i just don't know what to do, im so nervous for some reason! And i don't want to just come out and say "so are you gay?"


Any advice would be greatly appreciated
 
Flirt ambiguously. For example (since I think this is specifically what you're looking for and this has worked in personal experience): mention something particular about him that not just anyone would notice; a scar on his face, his cologne, dimples, certain details about his eyes. Something that could be interpreted as platonic but also forward at the same time. Based on his reaction, if it's not completely reflex-nonchalant-friendly-only then he's not into guys and you should move on. If not, he'll think you're making the first move, and reciprocate. It may not be right then-and-there, but if he's interested... it'll happen. Trust me.
 
Hit on him, gauge his reaction. It doesn't have to be like WOW YOU'RE HOT it can be like the previous poster said, compliment him. Gauge his reactions and go with your gut feeling. You could always tell him you think he's cute without forwardly asking if he's gay. Either way it's something you need to get out of the way. It's better now than never... Don't just sit around wondering, he might just get bored thinking the same thing "is he gay?" while both of you are too scared to ask the other. I know it's awkward, but it won't kill you. Just do something, anything. Don't just let it brew in your mind until you do something drastic like just try to randomly kiss him.
 
Do you feel comfortable enough around him to say "I'm bi"? Because that's the obvious move.

Lex
 
If you haven't been friends with him for long, you might as well ask him or you can ask him what his views on gay marriage are or something... I wouldn't beat around the bush or spend time into something if he isn't really gay. Best thing to do is just either ask or subtley ask if that makes sense.
 
You're waiting for him to put his cards on the table.

If he is gay, he's waiting for you to put your cards on the table.

If you want to pursue this any further, you're going to have to come clean. If he's gay or bi, he'll probably take your lead and tell you.

But if you're not willing to take the risk and tell him you're bi and available, this won't go any further.
 
Time to fish or cut bait.

Risk it.

Share with him.
 
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