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Any Bi's who don't do anal?

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I don't with either sex. It's a slight turn on while watching porn but isn't arousing for me in real life.
 
I don't, but I changed my mind recently and want to give that a try.
 
This bisexual can't get enough of anal sex! You don't know what your missing. If it hurts, your doing something wrong.Of the guys and girls I have been with,none ever wanted to do anal. I told them how awesome it was and they were missing out. I never pressured any of my lovers,but they all became curious and eventually came around. I made sure I was super slow and took my time at first and used plenty of lube. Takes practice. I keep in touch and will tell you all, they give me credit for turning them into anal addicts as they call it. My current GF and I tried it recently and she can't get enough of it.She had this fear about it and I asked her to give it a try. We started slow and I told her if there is ANY pain or discomfort to let me know. Make sure you communicate with your partner. The last thing you want is someone doing anal just to make you happy.If done right, both will enjoy it.My GF has become obssessed with it.I never heard her or anyone moan with such pleasure. Now, I started something because we do it alot these days and it gets a little boring doing it over and over.She loves it though and we take turns which makes it really hot.Anal is the best in my opinion. If your a beginner, I would suggest this site. Its very helpful.
 
HA!! HOW WEIRD!! i was just gonna start a thread about this!!

I have been with my b/f now for 21/2yrs.. so i guess i am gay now not bi.. HOWEVER i would still date and have sex with a women if i was single.. anyways..

When i met him , i had just come out of a 3 yrs marriage , and thought i would live my life the way i wanted.. met him feel in love BIG TIME!!

My question is ... am i depriving him of the pleasure of anal, coz i do not really enjoy it in any way.. ??? we have done it about 3 time in the 21/2 yrs we have been 2gether, however he is adament that he does not miss it and enjoys our sex life without question..

I am however getting worried that , even though he says it does not bother him, will he not get fed up eventually and just go get it somewhere else ?

For the guys who enjoy it , and now are seeing/dating guys that do not enjoy it , do you say its cool without it , but secretly long for it ??

Sorry for the long post..

Al :O )
 
No doubt, being open-minded, when it comes to sexual exploration is a major advantage.

However, if your partner says a very firm 'No', I would not be pushing the issue. I know of quite a few guys out there, who simply do not want to do it. For whatever reason.

Being that this a matter of personal choice, we ought to take it as it is.

SC
 
This is indeed a very interesting subject.

In my opinion there is a very large spectrum when it comes to anal play and it all comes down to personal feelings and preferences. I have friends who are literally repulsed with the idea anal play be that on their own or with their partner. Then there are people that love nothing more than getting rough and ready in that area.

However the majority of people probably fall somewhere in between. For example you are happy to play with fingers but would draw the line a full anal penetration with a penis.

Personally I have always enjoyed anal sex and other forms of anal play. I have had partners that feel the same way and partners that have made it clear that it is a no go area. At the end of the day anal sex is like any other sexual act you have to communicate with your partner and make a decision between the two of you as to what it is you are both willing to do. You might be able to persuade a partner to try something new but you should never try to force them or black male them into to doing something they are not comfortable with.

Oh and hi everyone as this is my first post :)
 
Romantico - Try not to worry too much about it, if it doesn't interest you ,don't do it. I don't like turnips and I feel that my diet is fairly complete!
 
Whoa - I got my names mixed up! My message was for bluealternative.

Romantico - I'm jealous of your magic touch!

I love anal, giving and receiving, and my relationship has very little of either. It's real tough for me sometimes.
 
Never had sex with a guy (:( ). But i have a butt plugs that feel FANTASTIC and the one experience i had with a female, she fingered me while she was blowing me. Which would have been a lot better if her fingers weren't so dry (this was also her first time having relations with a man {she was a bi that had only done girls before} plus we were both really drunk).


Wow, that was a huge sentance . .. .
 
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I forget what the actual stat is, but I want to say that about half of M2M relationships do not practice anal sex.

Do not feel that you have to, or that there is something wrong if you don't. Nothing could be further from the truth.
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Wow! If that's true, it sure doesn't seem that way when looking through gay personals. It's a little weird getting turned down by men because I choose not to go all the way. (Kinda like a reverse-role of how most women would respond.)
 
I have tried it, as top a few times with one guy, and as a bottom once with another, and as a whole, it's just not my thing. I wouldn't rule out doing it in the future by any means, but I prefer other things.
 
bluealternative said:
Wow! If that's true, it sure doesn't seem that way when looking through gay personals. It's a little weird getting turned down by men because I choose not to go all the way. (Kinda like a reverse-role of how most women would respond.)
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I would not read too much into this. Lots of guys out there might be prone to interpret your 'no anal. Period.' Open and upfront, as manifest evidence that you are harboring a host of other sexual hang ups ..., so they are moving on. When it comes to profiles and self-marketing as the case may be, try to emphasize what you do as opposed to what you do not.

SC
 
No way!!

I have no desire/urge to do it with either sex. It grosses me out!!
 
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