Any guys into FTM's (female to male transsexual)?

[Amexicano]

Any guys out there who are into female to male transsexuals? Not chicks with dicks but dudes with pussies?

http://ftmporn.tumblr.com/post/78183808181

 

[luckynumbah7]

There's a few on the forum into ftm's, yes. If I were you, though, I wouldn't go around pointing out our differing genitalia at a first meeting if you're wanting to get laid. People generally don't like to be fetishized before the first date. This doesn't apply to hookups, people're a lot blunter there - but you'd better ask what words he prefers, because if you kill his libido you're not getting any.

 

[blackbeltninja]

Wow. I don't know much about the process, but those images certainly were informative.


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[jensu846]

I think it would be fun to suck on their big clits but that's where it would end.

 

[luckynumbah7]

Wow. I don't know much about the process, but those images certainly were informative.


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Pffffft.

Here

That one is informative.

Pretend there's a smiley-face icon snickering here, wouldya? Thanks!

 

[sumyungguy]

Sure, I'd be down. Have yet to meet one that was interested though. Fritz Von Fuckup is quite the porn name of choice

 

[Sudiig]

i am, id so love to go down on one i personally dont care for how the female body looks, so a pussy on a 'guy' wld really turn me on.

 

[luckynumbah7]

Sure, I'd be down. Have yet to meet one that was interested though. Fritz Von Fuckup is quite the porn name of choice

I always wondered how people came up with those porn names, tbh. "the name of your pet + first street lived on" doesn't quite cover that.

And for the poster above, you just lost the lottery with the scare quotes around guy. Fucking isn't rocket science, if you think someone is 'fake' then that comes through. Most people find it a real turn off.

 

[Sudiig]

There's no reason to be emotional of my semi-quotes. I just either rarely interact with transexual men, or don't know I'm doing so because they don't tell me. Because of that, I'm not sure whether to call them a guy or not, especially since by my own deduction they were first female, and they still have a vagina, as well as some of them still act like females in some cases. It's not like it's as a common site in humans as shemales are.

 

[luckynumbah7]

@Sudiig,

Nah, emotional would be me calling you nasty names.

All I did was point out that if someone is trans they don't appreciate your little scare quotes that claim Faux.

I'll let you in on something else, because I'm feeling generous, god knows why, think I'm overtired - Every trans person has heard every excuse. There isn't an original one to be had these days and none of those convoluted and self-serving reasonings make sense to us in a logical manner. We don't care at this point, we just write you off the mental list if you don't shape up and then we go about our day.

And, big surprise here, you're wrong again. There's as many ftms as mtfs'.

 

[Quercus]

I met a cute transsexual guy a month ago. The first time we met, we kissed all night and he slept with me. There was no sex, we just cuddled. The second time we had sex and it was my first pussy ever. It was amazing!

I continue to see him sometimes and I think he may become my real boyfriend. He is very masculine and absolutely not feminine. I just can't believe I'm dating a guy with a pussy!

 

[Sudiig]

I'm not sure you can speak for all trans people on how offensive or inoffensive my ''scare'' quotes are (what ever that means). None the less, when I meant emotional, I mean you let your emotions cloud your judgements. I know people like to cling to them, but when your being serious, try to block them out and use fact.

Besides, so far, your the only one with the problem of a single word I typed in apostrophes in that one post. My view is, no matter how much a human changes their body, the base will not disappear totally, therefore, the gender is obviously still lingering, despite the said persons desire to change it.

 

[luckynumbah7]

Lemmie put it this way - I've been in the online trans communities (the english speaking ones, anyway, always took ages to get video translations) since I was 16 and the physical community since I moved to the city. I've met, literally, hundreds upon hundreds o'my 'siblings', as it were.

Not a one of us like scare quotes. Not. One.

And your second line o'defensiveness up there is a crock of shit. Trans people don't go to the doctor to change their damn genders. What the hell is it with cis people and that kind of thinking? Gender is not sex, sex is not gender. Hell, sex isn't even sex, come to that.

 

[luckynumbah7]

So please, do go on using them when you're trying to pick people up, it ain't hard, I 'magine you know what to do with your fingers. That'll give potential partners the heads-up that you think he's fake so he can get the hell out've there with his dignity intact.

 

[Yuki Sohma]

I checked out a few of the images of "hot guys" with female genitalia and although I prefer cocks to female parts and being that I enjoy "femme" fellas I might enjoy sexual intimacy with a seemingly male partner with female genitalia

 

[Sudiig]

Yes yes I'm sure you mean well, but there's no reason to get all uptight over a single post from someone you don't know. I replied to you to explain myself, not because what I thought you said was important. Also, again, you experienced only that said group, don't be arrogant enough to assume you know what all trans people think. Continuing to argue with me won't change my mind or make you you say more valid, you can continue if you wish, but I have a limited tolerance level for people that get...defensive, over online posts.

 

[luckynumbah7]

-Again, not uptight nor upset. I am, however, darkly amused.

You need to work on reading comprehension - there was no "A Group" involved. Our community is fucking miniscule - much, much tinier than the gay/bi cis male community. It's the only community where you actually do know everyone else - in a manner of speaking. It's a bit like playing "7 Degrees of Kevin Bacon". Apparently you really have no idea how small, because there weren't even enough of us to - make - a group to start with way the hell back when. A handful of trans people made trans focused websites/blogs and the rest of us found them and flocked. Flock and rotate and flock some more. When I say the consensus comes from all of us, I do indeed mean it. There was, of course, a trans message board earlier than that, but it was hidden, I'd have to ask Lisa about that, as she was on that particular one. Before my time.

And while the trans community argues about quite a few ridiculous things "who owns caf/mab", fer instance, or how inclusive/disinclusive the subject of transmisogyny is (which there really needs to be some conversations on) but scare quotes?

You honestly think I give two shits in a tin bucket about scare quotes? It's simple - if you don't want trans people to think you're an epic douche, don't use them. If you do, fine, no worries, we'll just take note and wander somewhere where people don't insult us.

See? Simple. There's no argument from my end - there never was. Purely factual statements. Do with 'em what you wish.

 

[blackbeltninja]

So please, do go on using them when you're trying to pick people up, it ain't hard, I 'magine you know what to do with your fingers. That'll give potential partners the heads-up that you think he's fake so he can get the hell out've there with his dignity intact.

To be fair, I think you are leaping to an entirely-incorrect conclusion. And doing so in a manner which is smug, obnoxious and downright supercilious; and all unnecessarily so.

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[luckynumbah7]

To be fair, I think you are leaping to an entirely-incorrect conclusion. And doing so in a manner which is smug, obnoxious and downright supercilious; and all unnecessarily so.

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Then explain how quotes around a sex ID don't denote fake? Because I can't think of one instance where it doesn't. I also took the liberty of double checking with other trans people. At the very least whoever uses scare quotes when referring to trans people's genders gets a side-eye.

*edited to add,

And whenever someone points out that such quotations are rude as hell, there's always at least three lines of 'reasoning' that makes no goddamn sense. Scare quotes around gender may be new to people who don't have to deal with such shit, but every trans person on the internet deals with them daily whenever someone knows we're trans. And I do mean daily. Rather goddamn hard to be smug when your group is getting insulted and you're supposed to smile and nod.

And this

"And for the poster above, you just lost the lottery with the scare quotes around guy. Fucking isn't rocket science, if you think someone is 'fake' then that comes through. Most people find it a real turn off."

Was someone being nice about bullshit they get whenever they talk outside of a trans-only safer space. If someone wants to see me actually tearing someone apart, I can do that too. I'm a comedian, y'see, and I've gotten a hell of a lot of practice discussing stereotypes and issues in 'real life'.

 

[blackbeltninja]

Then explain how quotes around a sex ID don't denote fake? Because I can't think of one instance where it doesn't. I also took the liberty of double checking with other trans people. At the very least whoever uses scare quotes when referring to trans people's genders gets a side-eye.

*edited to add,

And whenever someone points out that such quotations are rude as hell, there's always at least three lines of 'reasoning' that makes no goddamn sense. Scare quotes around gender may be new to people who don't have to deal with such shit, but every trans person on the internet deals with them daily whenever someone knows we're trans. And I do mean daily. Rather goddamn hard to be smug when your group is getting insulted and you're supposed to smile and nod.

I believe the guy who wrote it said he did so because he's not sure what term to use.

but let me check...

There's no reason to be emotional of my semi-quotes. I just either rarely interact with transexual men, or don't know I'm doing so because they don't tell me. Because of that, I'm not sure whether to call them a guy or not, especially since by my own deduction they were first female, and they still have a vagina, as well as some of them still act like females in some cases. It's not like it's as a common site in humans as shemales are.

Yes, there it is.

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