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i am 24 my bf is 45..i would like to know any guys have the same case as me...is that my bf always busy and no time for me..only can meet one time each week...in fact how is the thought of mature guy??? dont they miss his bf??? dont they want to see everyday???talk/sms/call everyday???
 
... Is this a long distance relationship? The thought of living in the same city with my man and only seeing him once a week would be...Very frightning.

Are you in a...committed relationship? Sorry, I just wonder if you guys are in an actual relationship or a...sex only relationship?

Sounds like if he is only having communication with one once a week... You might need to find someone who is more...Available.


Good luck!
 
yeh we are in the same city...and of corse we are committed relationship...i am asian..he is gwm work in my city..so always busy...have to deal with worldwide business...we have talk about that problem...and i understand why he cannot meet me so often..but as now is summer time..i have much free time..so miss him everyday even can sms or msn...but most time is i send him actively...sometimes i consider to find someone else..but i really luv him..amd he luvs me too...and most important is he are serious in relationship...not like others here just for fun or sex
 
I am older than my boyfriend. I'm 43, he's 37. It's not as big an age gap as some relationships, but when we first met, he was 26 and I was 32. As we age, it doesn't seem to matter as much. This is the guy I plan to spend the rest of my life with (God willing). :D
 
Im 43 and bf is 61. Im in Malaysia and he is in OR, USA. We chat online every day and chat by phone on weekends. We meet a few times a year and are committed and love each other.
 
ohh u really can bear only meet few times a year??? is that i am not mature enough??? i always think of my bf and wait for his sms everyday
 
yeah and we make the best of it..like you I cant wait for our daily chat...In fact Im chatting with him as I type this
 
how long are u together with him??? seems so sweet can we chat a bit via msn???
 
Be happy for the time apart. The more you see him the quicker you'd probably get tired of him. Just create your own life, pursue your own projects, your own goals etc.
 
What you describe doesn't really have anything to do with the age difference between you, but it doesn't sound to me like a healthy relationship.

Most people, especially on a foreign assignment, don't work constantly. I find it hard to believe that he couldn't find more time to do things with you if he really wanted to.

Frankly, I'm a little bit suspicious. Has he ever introduced you to anybody? Someone he works with or an acquaintance? Is it possible that he is socializing during the week and he doesn't want those people to know about you?

I hope for your sake that it isn't like that, but if it is, then you have to ask yourself if your relationship has any future.
 
I am 43 and my bf is 27. We have a great relationship and dont see the age difference as any type of issue. It is a way for both of us to explore new and diiferent things. We have been together for almost a year and starting to have the conversations about living together. Actually, we is still sleeping in my bed as I am typing this. We talk and/or see each other everday.
 
Brandon and I are 25 yrs age differance, and we do not see it like that, age is just a number. I live in Portland, OR, he is in San Bernardino, CA, 1000 miles apart! It is very difficult, but I had the opportuntity to go see him this week! It was great! But other wise we do talk all most every day, we use skype, and we both have webcams! That helps alot when we miss each other, at least we can see and hear each other.
It does not sounds like an age issue to me as well. . . might discuss with him, if he is to busy now, how will it be when your together?
I wish you all the best, and hope it works out for you both!!
 
antdak said:
Brandon and I are 25 yrs age differance, and we do not see it like that, age is just a number. I live in Portland, OR, he is in San Bernardino, CA, 1000 miles apart! It is very difficult, but I had the opportuntity to go see him this week! It was great! But other wise we do talk all most every day, we use skype, and we both have webcams! That helps alot when we miss each other, at least we can see and hear each other.
It does not sounds like an age issue to me as well. . . might discuss with him, if he is to busy now, how will it be when your together?
I wish you all the best, and hope it works out for you both!!
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Well Antdak already explained the whole process of our relationship at the moment.

I miss my boyfriend, but I know that with his current situation and my current situation I will have to wait until we're both ready to move in with each other. Antdak is a little more developed than me in the living department, because he's only waiting for a couple of things until he's able to move here to California. We both go through that phase when we miss each other deeply, it was a total surprise to see him this week. I wasn't really wanting him to do it because I knew that it would hurt on our last day which it did, it hurt us emotionally.

About the whole busy factor, I think I'm a little more busy in my life than he is, when I talk with him he's always sitting there while I'm either posting on a message board, answering messages, or other things. I've given up a lot of the things I use to do just for him. (Xtube, MySpace, and Movie Making) I know I'm young, but I'm just telling it from my point of view, I miss Antdak very much but I'm a patient person and I can wait forever until he's able to be with me, he's the same way because he hasn't left me yet due to my living conditions.
 
This doesn't have much to do with age. This has more to do with the time constraints of your relationship. You can be just as busy as he is but you're not. I don't think his profession allows for a full-time relationship. :(
 
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