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My gf went to Europe for the summer. Her best friend (is gay) and I started to hang out. Long story short, we messed around. We messed around alot. I tried to end it but I keep going back for more. Anyone in the same boat?
 
Never had that problem but I do hope you enjoyed yourself and it is only natural you should explore all aspects of Gay Relationships.

So does this mean you now have a Girlfriend and a Boyfriend?? If so live with your Boyfriend and sneek out to see your Girlfriend!! :lol:
 


What I find IRONIC Xango is that we want to be identified as Gay and be accepted for who we are but when a Straight Boy shows up trying to understand he is at in life. Some want to laugh or make fun because there is a section devoted to Straight & Bi Guys. Why??

I think it is great that kel0078 has taken the time to educate himself afterall with knowledge come understanding and acceptance!!
 
kel0078 said:
My gf went to Europe for the summer. Her best friend (is gay) and I started to hang out. Long story short, we messed around. We messed around alot. I tried to end it but I keep going back for more. Anyone in the same boat?
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I guess I have a few questions:

1) Does your girlfriend know that you are bisexual?

2) Do you have an open relationship?

3) If not, what are your plans for your girlfriend at this point?

The reason I ask these questions is that it would be a little unfair to your girlfriend not to know that her boyfriend has been having sex with someone else, besides her. Of course, that's if there is no open relationship. I am not going to condemn you, but I will say that being in a relationship is about sacrifices as well as being selfless. Again, if you two have discussed this already, disregard what I am saying to you. However, if not, then you may want to reevaluate whether or not a relationship is what you really want.
 
I'm gay and have slept with one of my straight friends. It's hot. The only way to keep it going it to be open and honest with him - and he has to do the same with you.

Once you are able to do that, the rest is cake.... :)

Don't let the self righteous queens on here judging and vomiting bullshit about what to do or how to handle your girlfriend dissuade you from enjoying this guy....and your girlfriend. You can do both as long as you are smart and don't get greedy. As much as it sounds like a contradiction, respect is a good way to handle this situation too..
 
quasar said:
Maybe for the same reason that many of my straight friends love coming to my gay bar? ;)
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But most straight guys wouldn't be caught dead in a gay bar, and this forum has like what... two straight members. One of which I don't even believe is straight and the OP in this thread clearly isn't if he had repeated sex with his girlfriend's gay friend.
 
sdrival said:
3) If not, what are your plans for your girlfriend at this point?

That's not fair. What if he wants to stay with the girlfriend in which case the question should be -- What are your plans for your boyfriend at this point? What if the girl comes home and everything changes?
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Um, I'm not sure I exactly understand your qualm. My question is fair as he has established a relationship with his girlfriend and from what I can gather based on his original post, he still considers her his girlfriend. I believe that my question is valid.

marleyisalegend said:
I don't think anything is wrong with it as long as the girlfriend knows about it. A lot of people are offering support and that's good but I wonder if they'd be so supportive if they were in the girlfriends shoes; leave for a few months and discover that their lover has been having an affair behind their back.
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That's what I am saying. If the girlfriend knows, then there is no issue. However, if she does not know, then that is where the problems could potentionally begin.
 
UM - seriously, congrats on opening new doors. Even though this is a hot story...

If you choose to be exclusive with either one, the other might be wrought with envy, jealosy, etc. Unless it becomes an acknowledged threesome, someone - any one of you three - is bound to have hurt feelings.

Even though it might be hard to "unring that bell" with the dude right now, that might be the best policy. You're damned if you do, and damned if you don't...

You run the risk of the girlfriend finding out the hard way unless you come clean

Any which way -
1. Stay with her and stay silent
2. Stay with her and come clean
3. Break up with her and hook up with him
4. Break up with her and not hook up with him either

Their friendship is on the line with any of these outcomes. There is no longer anymore right or wrong cuz it's hard whatever happens - resentment and anger are there for all parties involved. Unfortunately, it is all up to you - I hate to say this, but #4 would be the least selfish.

Good luck man.
 
Ok. I am in agreement with some in that yes it is natural to want to explore parts of your sexuality that have not be previously tapped into. BUT if you are in a relationship I think that it is disrespecful and dishonest for you to mess around while dating reguardless of how far away or how long your partner stays at his/her destination. If you feel like you need to explore parts of your sexuality while you are dating, you need to communicate that fact with your partner and either work together on it or part ways.
 
Thanks all for your comments. Words from her mouth, "I understand you'e a guy, do what you want; just don't let me find out." Again, long story short..I can't stop going to his place.
 
the question is: do you feel any emotional attachment to this guy? or any less to your g/f after this happened?

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Yes to him, because I see him daily. Yes, to my gf, we don't see/talk as often.
 
Again thanks all. I'm sure i'm not the only one in this situation. Anyone in same/similar situtation?
 
I was in this kind of situation about a year ago
Get closer to the boyfriend of one of my friend after she left town for work.
Everything was complicated and we end up not seing each other.
What did this guy think about all of this? When you said that you messed up around, is it just sex or are you acting like a couple?
 
Well to him it's perfect. He sense that I was interested. He's right, perfect situation. Like I said we both enjoying it. I hang at his place alot. He slipped once or twice calling me other than my name. I just told him to not get too comfortable. We're enjoying each other company.
 
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