Any tips for using Colt Anal Trainer?

[gayjohnd]

Hi,

I've ordered the colt anal traner kit along with lube and Anal Ese De-Sensitising Cream (I didn't know it existed until I just happened to see it when ordering the trainer kit).

I'm a very inexperiensed bottom. I've tried bottoming before but it's too painful even if the penis isn't inserted very far! Any time I try it's so sore I have to get my partner to stop. I can insert 2 fingers with lube without any pain. My partner wants to fuck me and I really want him to.

I would basically like to know any tips on using the anal trainer kit so I can be a good bottom.
Links to useful websites would be greatly acceped as well.

 

[palemale]

Forget about the anal trainer. Just make sure your partner rims the hell out of you before sticking his cock in. If you're nice and relaxed, you'll be able to lay back and enjoy it (or ride it and enjoy it, or bend over and enjoy it . . . you get the picture).

 

[gayjohnd]

He doesn't like rimming so that's not an option... though I like the sound of what you're saying!

 

[borg69unimatrix]

You have to train yourself to relax. Your whole life you've been clenching to not let things out when it's not supposed to. Now you want to go against programming, throw the doors open and invite in the troops to what has always been a lock and key exit only. The door is still locked and your friend is a battering ram.

Relax... take your time... and practice practice practice... with lots of lube.

 

[KaraBulut]

In general, the Colt kit has 3 butt plugs- small, medium and large. They are somewhat flexible and can be partially or completely inserted.

The smallest of the three is about 5 inches long, so it's on the shorter end of the average penis range. Start with that one. Keep in mind that the goal is to learn to relax and enjoy the sensations, not to fuck yourself with the plug. You do not have to put the whole thing in until you are completely relaxed to the point where it slides in with little/no resistance. So, lube it up, slide it in and out to the point where it is still comfortable. Pay attention to what is going on with your sphincter- it should feel tense at first but then it should relax. When you reach the point of relaxation, then advance the plug further. In time, you should be able to slide the plug in all the way and leave it in place while you jack off.

Don't progress to the medium sized plug until you're able to accommodate the small plug. There is a jump in size between the small and medium plug but the process is the same. Only insert the plug to the point where it is comfortable. Never try to advance until you are relaxed and it feels comfortable.

You may or may not be able to take the largest of the three plugs. It is much larger (specifically much wider) than the typical penis, so don't be surprised if you may get in over your head at first when you upgrade to the largest plug.

If you're a guy who enjoys edging and long masturbation sessions, then you may enjoy playing with the plugs by yourself. However, it is sometimes easier to work with the plugs with an extra hand, so feel free to get your boyfriend involved in helping with training. At some point if your boyfriend is helping, you may be relaxed and ready to the point where you say, "Screw the plug, I'm ready for the real thing.".

 

[gayjohnd]

Thanks for the tips. It's just arrived so I'll try out the small pug tonight and report back.

 

[gayjohnd]

I used a lot of lube and was able to completely insert the small plug with no problem!
At least I think I used a lot of lube. Is there a standard amount for what's normal or what's a lot?

I was surprised with how easy it was to put in and I kept it in while I jacked off.
One thing I didn't do was slide it in and out and just realised that after I was finshed so I think I'll give the small plug another go before I move to the medium plug.

 

[gayjohnd]

I went ahead and tried the medium plug. I got it in about 3/4 of the way and I couldn't get it any further.
I pulled it out, put on more lube and tried again. I got it in all the way!
I was really amazed that I managed it practically first time! Now I'm starting to wonder if not enough of lube was my problem all along!

I'm not sure if I'll go staight to the big plug or use the medium another couple of times. The latter sounds more sensible but I'll see what I feel like on the night.